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help, im in love with a girl

but not attracted to her physically. What can i do to make a relationship work between us

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ForeveЯ ♦ Night offline Verified User (3 years, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 3 years, 1 month ago (1 minute after post)

You sure you’re in love with her? If its “true love” then you shouldn’t care what she looks like on the outside.

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Jerry offline Verified User (3 years, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 8 #
An Unknown Location | 3 years, 1 month ago (3 minutes after post)

Yeah, you’re probably not in love. Physical attraction isn’t an obstacle if you’re really in love.

J.

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An Unknown Location | 3 years, 1 month ago (6 hours, 7 minutes after post)

wow thats not much help i mean i know its not everything but physical attraction is pretty importain for a true long term relationship and your really kidding youselfs if you think otherwise

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An Unknown Location | 3 years, 1 month ago (6 hours, 22 minutes after post)

I agree but what about her do you find unattractive?

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An Unknown Location | 3 years, 1 month ago (6 hours, 49 minutes after post)

well her weight is her biggest problem but its not something she is going to be able to fix easily and i dont blame her for it, its not her falt
i would give anything to be with this girl, she makes me so happy, but idk i worry that over time i might feel a little sexually frustrated and/or unsatisfied

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