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Mixed Signals.
IS she really interested?
I have been talking to this girl for a few weeks now. I saw all these signs of interests and I still see them. The usual hair tossing and twirling when we speak, the eye contact, head tilt etc…And by the way she GAVE me her Number before I had time to ask. So just the other day we were in class and we flirted a lot, I teased and acted disinterested in what she had to say, she would turn around in her chair and less than 5 seconds she would turn back and try to talk with me. I was playing hard to get and she could not resist. So then out of nowhere she asked me to touch her hand to feel how soft it was she recently bought a new hand lotion. I did and she smiled. I have noticed that we have been getting more physical with the touching. So later on she was telling how hungry she was and how she wanted to grab a bite to eat. So I made my move a suggested we go eat. She did not hesitate one bit and said yes. We decided to meet at her favorite burger joint. So we talked about a lot of things from school to politics and then eventually to sex. She told me that she was not a virgin. Well anyway I don’t know what made her tell me this, I guess she was just thinking about sex, LOL. During our time together I noticed all the signs of interest, the hair thing, eye contact, she accidentally brush her legs against mine under the table. We were really comfortable with each other. And then she mentions a guy that she has been talking to, this was random. She says she has been talking to him for a six months but she is getting tired cause he has not made a move yet. I flat out tell her to not waste her time on someone that is not returning feelings. She agrees and says that she is not going to chase. That she is waiting for the right guy to find her. She then asks me about my relationships and I tell her that I am not currently dating anyone. We chit chat and then I tell her that we should get going. I walk her to her car and I grab her hand gently I am expecting a hug, instead she leans into me with her right cheek expecting a kiss. I give her a soft kiss on cheek, still holding her hand in mine. I say good bye and she says “see you in class next week”. What is up with girl? IS she testing me? Is she really interested or just a big flirt.
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