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This is silly to be bothered about, but anyway…

My boyfriend and I have been together for over six months and been friends for eight years. We were serious pretty fast, I mean, he told me he loved me a week after we got together, which was good coz I felt the same way, so it’s not “early days” for us. I waited a month or two till I updated my relationship status on Bebo to ‘In A Relationship’. Like I said, silly, but it’s just something I really wanted to do. Anyway, he’s been “single” up until yesterday, when I finally asked him to change his. Now he’s changed it to “seeing someone”. I don’t get it at all, is he trying to be funny or is insecure about people seeing that he’s with someone because I honestly think there’s no one left to tell. What’s going on here? We’ve already had a row today, I don’t want to start another one…

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HalleHere. offline Verified User (7 months, 4 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 7 months, 3 weeks ago (10 minutes after post)

I know how you feel.
It’s silly, yes, but it should be changed.
But I can understand if he doesn’t get on regularly?

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7 months, 3 weeks ago (17 minutes after post)

Well sometimes he goes a week without being on it, I guess.

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beatricegalant offline Verified User (1 year, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 9 #
An Unknown Location | 7 months, 3 weeks ago (1 hour, 1 minute after post)

I wouldn’t worry about it. Who cares what he puts on websites? The most important thing is when he is with you, he acts like a boyfriend and not as someone seeing someone. Big difference.

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HalleHere. offline Verified User (7 months, 4 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 7 months, 3 weeks ago (2 hours, 32 minutes after post)

beatricegalant wrote:
I wouldn’t worry about it. Who cares what he puts on websites? The most important thing is when he is with you, he acts like a boyfriend and not as someone seeing someone. Big difference.

Its possible to do this and acting another way when not around her.
Not to make her paranoid or anything.

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