Love help: I feel like the most pathetic person alive. - Help.com

stop trying to put guys your own age into certain groups. you think you know every guy? until you get to know people then you can make your own decision on why you don’t like them. just b/c they aren’t like you doesnt mean they won’t make a good friend. or more. unless you’ve hung out with your teacher OUTSIDE of school, you really don’t know him either. people put on mask so others can like them for certain reasons. you don’t know, your music teacher could actually be a horrible person. get to know guys you own age. they might surprise you.

A word of advice: Please don’t do anything that will put your music teacher in jail.

He’s your teacher so it is a no go relationship… but hey you have worked out what you like about the guy…. and that is really useful…. just translate it to other people…. look for the same qualities in others… You are not pathetic… our first crush is normally on someone who is unobtainable…. we do it because it is safe…. you are flexing your flirting skills on a safe option… just hope he’s a good guy who doesn’t abuse this.