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Hello I am having a very difficult time trusting my fiancee.

About7 months ago I found out he cheated on me and I was devastated. I have tried to put it in the past but I can’t. Everytime he leaves the house I think he is going to go with someone else. How do I become the secure female I once was? Do I pay him back by sleeping with someone else? I am so confused.

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fractal.scatter offline Verified User (10 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 284 #
An Unknown Location | 7 months, 3 weeks ago (2 minutes after post)

I think seven months after that happened is way too short for him to be your fiance. And everyone deserves a second chance, but you gotta wanna give it to him and let go of what has happened.

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Sasha101 offline Verified User (1 year, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 6 #
An Undisclosed Location | 7 months, 3 weeks ago (8 minutes after post)

You can forgive but you seldom forget hon, Ive been where you are so trust me I understand. Give it some time and try to put it behind you, but living with doubt every time he leaves your side doesn’t make for a good relationship, so if you cant put it behind you, Id consider the alternative.Two wrongs dont make right so I don’t think sleeping with someone else is your answer, this wont make you feel any better I doubt.

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