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as much as i hate asking for help..

i am close very close to being in big trouble with the bank and town r/t my house. i work overtime and do all i can, but i took on all the debt of my ex-husband just to get divorced and get him out of my life.. i let him walk away.. if anyone is willing to help i would appreciate..

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Victoria Sponge offline Verified User (2 years, 10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 5 #
Fritwell, K2, GB | 8 months ago (3 minutes after post)

If you call all the debt companies they should be willing to help you out with different payment plans that you can afford, the last thing they want is to take your house and stuff as that actually costs them too much to do, you must call them and ask for help tho, explain your situaltion and how much you can pay, as long as you pay them something there is not much they can do. Failing all that IVA’s are a step before bankruptcy and may be a good way out

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8 months ago (5 minutes after post)

You need to at least discuss it with the finance companies in order that they are aware of your sad predicament and do not think you are just not paying.

Can you talk to the Citizens Advice Bureau too in order to understand your options?

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nitemarenme3 offline Verified User (9 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 8 months ago (5 minutes after post)

not to be rude but this site is not for charity handouts.

the only advice i can give you is to try and get a friend or family member to give you a loan or something. or maybe you could go to the bank and ask for a time extension if thats what you need. sorry to not be of more help. hope everything works out!

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dove7 offline Verified User (10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Unknown Location | 8 months ago (16 minutes after post)

The company would rather have any money than none, and it’s worse for them during a recession. Too many people are gooing under, which is making mortgage companies think twice on helping out the little guy. I’d suggest calling them to lower your payments and interest rate.

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webjeff200 offline Verified User (2 years) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
Chicago, IL, US | 7 months, 3 weeks ago (1 week, 1 day after post)

This is something from Earl Nightingales “The Strangest Secret” This is audio is true and simple fact in life that is true for all of us. “We become what we think about.”
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