life help: i feel so ,multi-emotional i cant put my finger on this emotion maybe nostalgic . - Help.com

On the first one, it differs from situation to situation, from person to person. I know I myself, leave the impression too much that I dont care, while I do care. Its annoying when there’s something bothering my gf.. ;)

And about people not seeing how they hurt you.. Yes, they are blind. The will most likely just not take you into account. And yes, thats life.
Some actually will, but you dont notice that really cause then things are ok and unfortunately its only the bad stuff people tend to remember.

Yes, you could skip to the end. And then? Nothing. So imo best not skip to the end and see if you can do some good. It’s your life, which you influence yourself mostly. You decide what people you are involved with. And if anything, you can always try to help others. (That actually is the reason I am replying to this post. Hadnt clicked it and was planning to go to bed really until I noticed it was you posting this, since you had replied to some other ones).

From this you might think even more that theres no point in life and that its crap. But just think about the good things. People forget about those just too often in my opinion.
Last, try just have an attitude of ‘**** happens’ when something bad happens. It doesnt solve anything, but shrugging and thinking this might actually help you to move on. Mostly you are powerless to do anything about what someone else did, but thats just how it is. Try to move on.

Once in a comedy show (According to Jim, I love it), someone had a problem about what another person had done and Jim said “ok, here is what we do. We try to get through the day as good as we can. Then we will go to sleep and when we get up, we go and do exactly the same, hoping the problem will fix itself”.
Very naïve of course, but sometimes it’s the best thing to do. And well, time heals all wounds. Once you have found your place and you feel comfortable (trust me, such a time WILL come), all your current worries and problems will be irrelevant.
Just try to value all the good things and be a good person yourself. When you do your best to do that, you know that at least YOU are living your life right and that you made the world a bit better as well.

Have a good night :)

that was both deep and confusing. No life isnt fair, but that doesnt mean it doesnt have its moments. And no its not a question of the tangled web we weave so much as it is that people generally speaking are selfish, if it exists beyond the end of their nose they cant see it, if it is inconvenient or uncomfortable, they chose not to. Thats what makes stories about poetic justice, or the kid saving the kitten from the tree so appealing. but the fact of the matter is, every day we have a choice we get out of bed the sun comes up, and wheather we want to admit it or not we get to decide what happens next. are we gonna go to work like we did yesterday, or play hookie and go for a drive. are we going to let something someone said to us upset us or are we going to decide what their opinions of us are worth in the grand scheme of things? typically I find if someone has something mean to say about me. its usually someone whos opinion of me matters about as much as a second bellybutton. its conversationally interesting but it serves no purpose.

Well that really isnt nostalgic but maybe a good clean …inner voice. i know what your talking about. there is a lot of misery out in the world from where every you maybe . Some people like yourself react to the atrocities of the world in a very …….sensitive way . That is what your feeling . Its actually quite good that you know whats right and whats not/
Dont worry though keep yourself busy in some other thing and youll soon forget it

Sounds like you need to learn how to not care what people think about you. Which usually means you have to take some time to figure yourself out.

Life is a bunch of causes and effects and they circle round and round. How do you know you are living the right life? Because it works for YOU.

Almost everything you do in life will feel insignificant, but its very important that you do it. - Yeah I just quoted Gandhi at you, hey - he was an insightful man.

What thelma says seems very true in my eyes. There comes a point in your life when your basically happy with who you are simply because you’ve made all the choices in life, and they seemed like the right ones at the time. It’s more complicated than that, but that’s the simpler version. And at this time you stop caring what other people think about you. Most people have very little happenstance when it comes to the choices in your life. You will come to realize this.

Your other point about skipping to the end because you think you know how this movie is going to end? Well let me tell you something sister, you are so far wrong you might as well have said God was a chimpanzee. Not only does life have a very uncanny way of surprising at the most inopportune times, but it is abundant with mystery. Don’t forget that we live in unprecedented era in which technology keeps getting more and more complex and innovative, who knows what the future could be like. Not only that but with the science and technology advancing at an increasing rate, some medical experts say that there is a chance that we will be the first generation to live forever. So it may not even end at all if you don’t let it. And I for one am probably going to get cryogenically frozen instead of having a funeral and burial, so I get an extra chance.

Don’t waste your existence hun, it would be a shame.