i need some guy help quite badly.

supersarahd1

i need some guy help quite badly.

i know this might sound pathetic, but i met this guy on myspace but i knew him from highschool (which was roughly 2 years ago). we’ve been talking for the past 3 weeks and he was really eager to meet me and he always messaged me and texted me on an almost daily basis. then on saturday i FINNALLY got to meet him cuzz he had a show and invited me to go, and i was heavily attracted to him at first glance. i ended up hanging out with him after the show all night playing beer pong and watching tv. i was really annoyed tho, cuz he “best friend” whos a chick was there the whole time, and even tho i know he doesnt like her like that, i was still bugged by the attention he was giving her. anyways, i went home sunday morning at like 12, and he texted me saying “random but i just wanted to say that your not fat at all and ill kill you if you say u are again! and you have the ******* cutest stomach ever!” i was quite confused byd by the text, but after i replied, he started to be more short with me by only saying things like, “ok”. and i havnt said a word to him for the rest of that day and today. what id like to know is, whats my next step, and how do i figure out if he likes me? im terrible with new relationships since ive only really been with one other guy before this. should i text him again? or wait till he texts me? or should i just give up all together? lol..im so afraid, and i dont even know why…i need friendly advice, cuz my actual friends are no help!!!

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Ashlo 1 #
An Unknown Location | 8 months ago (3 minutes after post)

Sounds like he’s attracted to me. That weird violent stuff is just what guys do when they feel threatened…By beauty perhaps? 8 0

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An Unknown Location | 8 months ago (4 minutes after post)

any possible chance that he sent you the wrong message? I had to ask… like, did he instantly go from that to monosyllabic replies?

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Sir Urgdu 4 #
Evanston, IL, US | 8 months ago (7 minutes after post)

He’s giving this other girl more attention because they’re best friends, and you’ve only known each other for a few weeks. That’s normal. You need to act as interested in him as possible. Did you give a bad reply to his complement?

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supersarahd1 2 #
An Unknown Location | 8 months ago (12 minutes after post)

nahh we talked and he said he had fun hanging out with me..but the conversation kinda started to die, so his texts went from moderatly long to just one word

supersarahd1 2 #
An Unknown Location | 8 months ago (18 minutes after post)

noo, i said “aw thanks, i had a really good time last night 3″

Sir Urgdu 4 #
Evanston, IL, US | 8 months ago (25 minutes after post)

Maybe he was just having an off night when he was responding to your texts with single syllable answers. Maybe we’re over-reacting? Text him tonight, and see if his responses are like those of the other night. If they’re as short as they were, something may be up. You might want to ask him straight up if anything is wrong with you two. Be prepared for an honest answer if you go this route!

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thelma.dair 5 #
An Undisclosed Location | 8 months ago (32 minutes after post)

Don’t be one of those girls who starts up with the jealous of the best friend thing - years of freindship trumps weeks of flirting, always. Be confident in who you are, if he wants to be with you than thats saying something.

Dont read so deeply into the text message thing, some people are short with the texts, or they are busy - maybe hes testing you out to see if you get offended easily, see if you can take it. Or maybe he just doesnt want to establish the relationship with Dont take it so personally.

Make the effort if you want to talk to him, but dont text like wild fire in wait for his replies. If you have soemthing to say, text him. If not, do your own thing.

Have some confidence in yourself and dont tell people you think you are fat - deal with you who you are.

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supersarahd1 2 #
An Unknown Location | 8 months ago (36 minutes after post)

thank you! i just texted him, and i guess things are back to normal :]

thelma.dair 5 #
An Undisclosed Location | 8 months ago (43 minutes after post)

I dont think things we’re abnormal in the first place. Dont assume to know what people are thinking or how they precieve you - that can really get you into trouble.

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Hi,howareyou? 3 #
An Unknown Location | 8 months ago (3 hours, 32 minutes after post)

sounded pretty flirty to me…

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