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idk how to start again.

to start from the very beginning. to mend what is broken. to start what has ended. i am on my late 20’s and i feel that i have made wrong decisions lately.

my family is driving me crazy for i cannot provide for them. my work is driving me crazy for i have been absent from work for months. my friends are driving me crazy for they basically cannot help, my only use for them is to treat them with my money. money is driving me crazy cause i am little by little losing it. i always lived alone, but now i never felt so alone and lonely, and hopeless and helpless.

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Aelux offline Verified User (8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 5 #
An Undisclosed Location | 8 months ago (5 minutes after post)

What does your family consist of?

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Sasha101 offline Verified User (1 year, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 6 #
An Undisclosed Location | 8 months ago (24 minutes after post)

You are not hopeless, take faith in the fact many people out there are feeling just as you are at the moment, these are depressing times for all, the economy is bad and many are finding themselves in dire straights. All we can do is hang in their until things get better, just take each day at a time, you cant fix what you cant fix worrying and fretting will do no good at all. Just pull your horns in financially, cut your bills down, save power when possible, eat cheaper foods, shop wisely there are ways to stretch your cash go to google and search ways to lower your bills etc.. hang in there hon, we are all in the same boat, you can sink or you can swim, the choice is yours, try to be positive. :-)

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8 months ago (45 minutes after post)

thanks sasha!

Aelux wrote:
What does your family consist of?

mother, siblings (older)

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Aelux offline Verified User (8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 5 #
An Undisclosed Location | 8 months ago (47 minutes after post)

Do you have any childhood friends or just co-workers?

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ameliaearthlin offline Verified User (8 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 17 #
An Unknown Location | 8 months ago (58 minutes after post)

you are not alone… were here

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Anonymous #
8 months ago (1 hour, 8 minutes after post)

Aelux wrote:
Do you have any childhood friends or just co-workers?

ya. but they have probs and lives of their own. the best buddy i once had, always wants a treat now. and i don’t have money to treat her often.

ameliaearthlin wrote:
you are not alone… were here

thanks. i am not worthy of it. but thanks!

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Aelux offline Verified User (8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 5 #
An Undisclosed Location | 8 months ago (1 hour, 11 minutes after post)

Of course you’re worthy of our time. We wouldn’t be talking to you if you weren’t…

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ameliaearthlin offline Verified User (8 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 17 #
An Unknown Location | 8 months ago (1 hour, 13 minutes after post)

Yes u are,
believe it not we care. Not all of humankind is bad.
Things will get better hun.
But it is u who has to want to make the changes to enable things to change.
Don’t fuel depression. Fight it.

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Anonymous #
8 months ago (1 hour, 15 minutes after post)

ya. thanks! i am not depressed. hopeless and tired maybe.
my nagging mother always nags me. my ears are going to explode one of these days!

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Aelux offline Verified User (8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 5 #
An Undisclosed Location | 8 months ago (1 hour, 22 minutes after post)

haha, I hear that…

You’re only hopeless if you stop trying. Keep moving forward.

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mcloughlinpropertyde offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 3 months, 1 week ago (4 months, 3 weeks after post)

dude

I stumbled across this site!

Hang in there man i know how you feel but things will get better

Will

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Anonymous #
3 months ago (4 months, 3 weeks after post)

it did actually. thanks to all who helped me…

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