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Im so confused!

!! Me and my ex hung out for the first time in ages yesterday. We were like best friends before we went out and we promised each other that no matter what we would be friends. however after we broke up i got a bf who didnt want me hanging out with him so i didnt as much but still tried to stay in contact. then by the time me and my bf broke up he had this new gf who wouldnt even let him speak to me or anything. so recently we hung out again and he kissed me. i thought i had my feeling in check and knew how i felt but when he kissed me it opened old wounds and im so confused. i know an ex is an ex for a reason but the second he kissed me all the old feeling i had seemed to come back. but now he seems like he hardly wants to know me again we hung out like 4 days ago and he just seems so off with me. i dont know what im suposed to do i dont know if hes mad or simply as confused as i am or what? im suposed to be going out with him and some other friends tomorrow but hes not texting me to let me know if hes coming. i just dont know what im suposed to do

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ameliaearthlin offline Verified User (8 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 17 #
An Unknown Location | 7 months, 4 weeks ago (43 minutes after post)

Tell him to be straight up with u.
u need 2 know where u stand.
He should respect that, and give you a straight answer.

He may be avoiding u cause he had his wounds opened up 2, and doesn’t know what 2 do.
Talk 2 him.

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