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I am having intense food cravings and don’t know how to control them.

First I feel a desire for the food (normally chocolate), then I want it badly because I am imagining the taste of it, then I begin to feel physically hungry, and finally (if I don’t have it already) I begin to feel extremely nervous with a lump in my throat and teary (but not crying) eyes. I then feel depressed and can’t think about anything except for the food item in question. This extreme food craving doesn’t happen as often as one might think because I normally don’t let it get that far. I can sometimes block it out of my mind in the beginning stages; however, when there is hope of obtaining it or knowing that I can obtain it, I want it even more and that leads to the above mentioned steps. I know this is destructive and it is beginning to have adverse affects on my life. I have always been uncomfortable with my hips but have always been between 115 and 130 lbs. I had reached 140 and am currently 137 lbs. This makes me feel even worse and more desperate to lose weight for some comfort that I CAN do it. I can’t diet for very long but when I do it’s only cutting calories. It’s off and on because I can never seem to stay on track. How can I diet successfully when I have these extreme cravings that last for hours?! Please help me!

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readalot offline Verified User (11 months) Long Term User Shouts: 8 #
An Undisclosed Location | 7 months, 3 weeks ago (7 minutes after post)

Hmmm…well, I never had cravings quite that bad, but I always thought it wise to have a dessert a week so you don’t crave too much. However, if you don’t have that good will power, I do know that if you eat an orange or apple when you start craving chocolate, sometimes it helps the craving go away… Sorry, don’t know that much. :)

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broughtond offline Verified User (7 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 7 months, 3 weeks ago (11 minutes after post)

yea, id go with something sweet and healthy, like an apple or watermelon.

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MarinMina716 offline Verified User (8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Undisclosed Location | 7 months, 3 weeks ago (55 minutes after post)

there could be many problems: make sure you are not allergic to ANYTHING you are eating. some doctors claim eating food you are allergic to increases cravings.

personally i would not go with a watermelon or any fruit w/ high sugar. in some people, moderate- high levels of sugar increase cravings.

go low on sugar– try a green apple.

trick: lemon water reduces carvings. sweeten with fructose or stevia.
(i would say to avoid aspartame, which is also known to cause cravings)

another trick: increase vitamin C. known to reduce cravings. buy the capsules at your local health food store.
i said it before and i will say it again: fish oil capsules. take them. they are amazing for cravings, skin, concentration…etc

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ryanman offline Verified User (8 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 4 #
An Unknown Location | 7 months, 3 weeks ago (58 minutes after post)

Sadly all the old cliche advice people give is what usually works:

- Drink lots of water
- Exercise kills cravings
- A bored mind wants to eat
- It’s easier to eat alone

On a personal note, I have always found it’s easier to eat nothing at all than “a little healthy something”. Seems like a take a bite of anything and it just opens the floodgates. Wish I could be more help.

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Sasha101 offline Verified User (1 year, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 6 #
An Undisclosed Location | 7 months, 3 weeks ago (1 hour, 16 minutes after post)

Try altering your intake of food, try to have five or six small healthy meals each day, eat breakfast as soon as you rise and try to eat every 3hrs or so. If your appetite is sated which it will be eating every three hours, you wont get hungry so often therefore you wont crave snacks or unhealthy foods.Make protein part of each meal if possible, chicken,egg whites, tuna etc..

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An Unknown Location | 3 months, 2 weeks ago (4 months after post)

It sounds like you have a lot of anxiety tied up with food - this will only intensify cravings, and make you feel worse about something that could be a small obstacle or indulgence.
If you don’t want to see a counsellor about this, I would second the exercise (it often does reduce your appetite), friends (hopefully they will calm you), and water (can do both advice.

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