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haha yeah

I would self-injure myself when I was 12-16, at that time, I didn’t care of the scars, the sadness it brought to my parents when they found out… The pain, for some reason helped. Looking back, I wish I hadn’t gone through that phase, but there’s really nothing I can do about it it.

Try to stop if you can ASAP, you’ll feel alot of emotions later in life when you look at your arms, legs, tummy and find scars all over, which will never fade.

=(
please stop it

Okay for one thing, if you want is control, why are you doing that when you could be trying to fix whats really bothering you instead? The fact that your hurting yourself shows you dont have control over yourself and no self restraint.

Theres lots of things out there that can relax you that dont hurt you though. Why hurt yourself even then? ya know =/

Shouldnt you try and control happiness instead of pain? Just watch some funny movies/shows/standup and you might feel better. Go out into the sun and watch the clouds. Exercise can give you control over your own body but in a non harmful way. You can control the feelings of others and try and make them feel better and trust me that will make you feel better too.

Well, literally, you ARE hurting yourself. If you could REALLY control pain, wouldnt you STOP the pain? THAT, is not control. Adding pain on top of pain will only make you explode later. STOP DOING IT! You can be totally anonymous calling a suicide hotline. It’s okay to call.

Ignoring the obvious is easier i guess…

please stop, dont make me have to come over there -_-

Why do you crave control so much? whats going on thats getting you down?

You need to talk to them about it then, how they are treating you or make you feel.

I think I get it now, your just under too much pressure and stress because people hold you so high and your afraid of letting them down. I dont think you will let them down.

Just do some unexpected fun new thing if you dont like how its “planned”

I really dont want you to keep hurting yourself like that. =S

Then you can respond back that you didnt ask for those things and they are forcing it on you because of thier own insecurities and let downs and are trying to live thier life through you. That might get them mad but i think wording it that way they might snap out of it later. I cant be sure, I havent done it before.

Maybe get some other relative or family friend to talk to them for you? It might be more persuading, if you keep going against them it would get them mad a bit maybe but if you hold your ground and dont back off they will eventually stop controlling you.