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I know this is really trivial but i need advice.

Last weekend i managed to get the guts to ask a girl iv’e liked for a while for her number. She gave me it and i ended up walking her home. She text sayin thanks and we’ve been in touch all week. I asked her if she wanted to go a walk with my dog and i and she said ‘another time’. She doesn’t seem too forthcoming in going out sometime so i don’t know why she keeps textin. is she just bein polite or is she shy? I really like her and i think she must like me as she wouldn’t have gave me her number and let me walk her home or even reply to texts. Any help / advice?

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zephyr89 offline Verified User (7 months, 4 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 7 months, 4 weeks ago (3 minutes after post)

It depends on your age mate. Asking her to walk your dog is a little trivial to be entirely honest, if she said another time it may mean nothing except that she was busy at that time.

Just be yourself, don’t stress too much and hope for the best. Don’t be too overbearing but don’t seem too relaxed.

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Ashlo offline Verified User (1 year, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 7 months, 4 weeks ago (24 minutes after post)

If it’s a new relationship, worrying is VERY bad, I’d wait and see.

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TutSiPop offline Verified User (1 year, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 7 months, 4 weeks ago (5 hours, 48 minutes after post)

I think you should talk to her more… What if the girl doesn’t like dogs??? or what if she goes to a piano lesson & couldn’t make it that day??? Just keep the flow, don’t push things & don´t build many expectations about the girl… If you keep talking to her, you’ll get the chance to know her better & possibly you’ll be able to ask her out to something elses & she’ll say yes…

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Sir Urgdu offline Verified User (1 year, 10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 4 #
Evanston, IL, US | 7 months, 4 weeks ago (17 hours, 52 minutes after post)

I think that she may actually be too busy to hang out with you some times. If you two talk all of the time, she must have at least SOME interest in you…

Best of Luck
Sir Urgdu

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