Love help: my friend told me to dump him. - Help.com

i think you should talk to him to see how he really feels about you. if he’s not that into you, maybe you’ll have to make the hard decision together to go your seperate ways. i know you might be afraid to be alone but it’s not fair to you if you’re in a relationship with someeone who doesn’t care about you.

Sounds like you really like him, so why don’t you tell him you’re getting bored? Tell him if he doesn’t shape up you’re gone. That or you recommend that you go somewhere, movie, dinner, sporting event, insert cliche dating location here.

obviously you are young… and when you are young, i can say this with positivity, you wont be with this guy forever anyways… so dump him already… you are right.. where is this relationship going anyways???
its the evil part of being a teen… heart aches of ‘being in love’ and going through relationships until you are old enough to find that one right one… but they each teach us what we are really looking for in that mr. right… and this guy is teaching you that you dont want to be alone all the time only seeing your man every few minutes between classes.. lmfao..
so dump him and find someone who can share some time with you outside of school..

jjlove wrote:
It sounds like you are already broken up and he just forgot to tell you.

im thinking jj is right…

I think you should probably break up with him, this guy doesn’t appear to be ready to have a girlfriend. You can always try things out when he’s a bit more mature, but right now I kind of a agree with you on this one, although it might be hard, it’s a necessary evil.

Best of Luck

Sir Urgdu

Go with what will make you happy.
And more importantly, talk it over with him.

Dont give up! Boys are soo clueless. my boyfriend just dumped me because we spent so much time together. i wish i could have him back another chance. so if you really like him try sort things out. heartbreaking is so hard. but i think communication is the key. seriously. i wish he told me. so maybe he thinks everythings fine the way it is? maybe he thinks you like it this way. just talk to him. and if hes feelings have changed than he isnt worth all of this. as hard as it may be. maybe youd be happier without him. You deserve more :)

ohh my… girl as early as now dump him before hes gonna take the chance to dump u like a trash… hes been showing signs that he is not serious with u…i may sound very rude but IVE BEEN THROUGH THIS SAME SITUATION….in fact im still hurting right now while im writing this. Im just trying to balance the good and the bad times we spent together…but its more on the bad times…why coz no matter how i try to show him that he means the world to me…the more hes being so unfair to me…he doesnt know how to get even. And ive suffered so much pain. Girl..its already coming from u that u feel so stupid for liking him so much…YES U REALLY ARE STUPID!!! if u dont kick his *** off. U even think that he doesnt care about u and never thinks about u…so why stick on him. I also had an extreme crush on my exbf…hes the most handsome med student in my school BUT HES GOT A BAD BAD FUR COVERING HIS GORGEOUS LOOKS…he turned my heart into pieces and it sucks that he left me for such a stupid reason….he got tired of me showing him that i love him so. SO, STOP being confused dear the answers are being laid on ur shoulders all u have to do is open ur eyes wide enough to see that he is not worth even a single tear drop.