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I miss mattering.

I don’t want to expand, or elaborate. I know this is a useless post, but I just wanted to say, that I want to matter again.

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heidih_12 offline Verified User (1 year, 6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 16 #
An Unknown Location | 7 months, 4 weeks ago (4 minutes after post)

As do I.

I just got rejected from the summer program I applied to. Now I feel like a crappy writer.

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Godfather offline Verified User (1 year, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 11 #
An Unknown Location | 7 months, 4 weeks ago (7 minutes after post)

I’ve been in four relationships in my life. I just broke up with a woman I care very much for. It was the right thing to do. But when I break up with girls, all I can do is call up the ones from before, and it just makes me feel even more alone.

I want to be thought about, to be missed when I’m gone and loved when I’m around. I miss being the boyfriend. I feel so useless and alone when I’m not.

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ack282 offline Verified User (9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 7 months, 4 weeks ago (8 minutes after post)

Sweetheart, everyone matters in this world. No matter who they are, no matter what a summer program says or what acceptence or rejection letters you get. Everyone is a person whom someone else cannot live with out. You make someone else’s world turn, whether you know it or not and therefore, you matter. Trust me.

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leedarien offline Verified User (8 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 22 #
An Unknown Location | 7 months, 4 weeks ago (14 minutes after post)

heidih_12 wrote:
As do I.

I just got rejected from the summer program I applied to. Now I feel like a crappy writer.

you’re a writer, too? i’m sure you’re not a crappy one, what do you like to write?

Godfather wrote:
I’ve been in four relationships in my life. I just broke up with a woman I care very much for. It was the right thing to do. But when I break up with girls, all I can do is call up the ones from before, and it just makes me feel even more alone.

I want to be thought about, to be missed when I’m gone and loved when I’m around. I miss being the boyfriend. I feel so useless and alone when I’m not.

i know exactly how you feel (except i miss being the girlfriend) and i feel like i miss someone having to care about me… but there’ll always be someone there for you, even when you don’t know it, you always make someoen’s day. you’ll find someone new, someone you really belong with, i’m sure.

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Godfather offline Verified User (1 year, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 11 #
An Unknown Location | 7 months, 4 weeks ago (31 minutes after post)

It just feels so hopeless.

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leedarien offline Verified User (8 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 22 #
An Unknown Location | 7 months, 4 weeks ago (36 minutes after post)

i know it feels hopeless now, hon. but it’ll get better. my boyfriend dumped me a couple of months ago…and alot of times i feel just like you do. i htink the important thing is to just concentrate on the little things, just the small things that can make you happy even though the sadness doens’t go away completely. stay busy and just look for the little things in life.

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heidih_12 offline Verified User (1 year, 6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 16 #
An Unknown Location | 7 months, 3 weeks ago (17 hours, 28 minutes after post)

leedarien wrote:

heidih_12 wrote:
As do I.

I just got rejected from the summer program I applied to. Now I feel like a crappy writer.

you’re a writer, too? i’m sure you’re not a crappy one, what do you like to write?

Godfather wrote:
I’ve been in four relationships in my life. I just broke up with a woman I care very much for. It was the right thing to do. But when I break up with girls, all I can do is call up the ones from before, and it just makes me feel even more alone.

I want to be thought about, to be missed when I’m gone and loved when I’m around. I miss being the boyfriend. I feel so useless and alone when I’m not.

i know exactly how you feel (except i miss being the girlfriend) and i feel like i miss someone having to care about me… but there’ll always be someone there for you, even when you don’t know it, you always make someoen’s day. you’ll find someone new, someone you really belong with, i’m sure.

I guess you could say I’m kind of an essayist, maybe fiction. I lean towards allegorical/symbolic pieces that could be classified as fiction. Maybe that’s why I was rejected…

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