Love help: what is your purpose in life if everyone you’ve been with uses you like a stepping stone?

Tyler6208

what is your purpose in life if everyone you’ve been with uses you like a stepping stone?

the questions race through your head. what is love? is it real? am i meant for it? do i not deserve it? why can’t i find the one for me? how many time will i be trampled because i let my guard down and try to love someone? I just don’t know anymore…

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Tyler6208 0 #
An Undisclosed Location | 7 months, 3 weeks ago (3 minutes after post)

sometimes it’s harder to move on when your heart is set on someone. no matter how horrible they treat you. your heart can’t let go.

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An Unknown Location | 7 months, 3 weeks ago (5 minutes after post)

thats very true. You just gotta teach yourself how to be emotionally and mentally stronger.

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An Undisclosed Location | 7 months, 3 weeks ago (6 minutes after post)

every time i achieve it someone with a huge ******* hammer drives me back into a self dug hole that is filled up with the lies and torment of the people my heart can’t seem to let go of.

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An Undisclosed Location | 7 months, 3 weeks ago (11 minutes after post)

because if you can’t forgive others how can you forgive yourself.

Quantum_Spirit 25 #
An Unknown Location | 7 months, 3 weeks ago (1 hour, 10 minutes after post)

Was the title a rhetorical question? If not I have ideas that may clarify.

I have some experience with a tortured heart, I may be able to provide some pacification.

Help me with: The Value of Knowledge and Truth.

Tyler6208 0 #
An Undisclosed Location | 7 months, 3 weeks ago (1 hour, 11 minutes after post)

anything will help me right now.

Quantum_Spirit 25 #
An Unknown Location | 7 months, 3 weeks ago (1 hour, 30 minutes after post)

Since you say anything, I am going to offer that which may help in the long run, but may hurt to hear right now.

The fact is, if your heart is betrayed by that which it desires, your heart is also betraying you. Though not intentionally. This means you have to make a big change in one of two things. Your ability to deal with that which your heart desires, or a change in what your heart desires. Both are extremely difficult and take from 3 weeks to 3 years to accomplish depending on your dedication, situation and heart.

You crave that which makes you happy. Yet your analysis of that which makes you happy is rarely initially correct when it comes to people. You can accommodate that by changing what can leave you feeling happy, or you can find things that are closer to what your heart desires.

In terms of love, this is most often the one that is most similar to you. The more you can relate to with a partner the more profound your relationship will be. Getting mistreated leaves little room to relate.

Help me with: The Value of Knowledge and Truth.

Tyler6208 0 #
An Undisclosed Location | 7 months, 3 weeks ago (1 hour, 57 minutes after post)

true. i’m just sick of it always happening when all i try to do is help people.

Quantum_Spirit 25 #
An Unknown Location | 7 months, 3 weeks ago (2 hours, 17 minutes after post)

I guess your giving someone advice when maybe you shouldn’t? Sometimes it’s best to just state your opinion, and refrain from giving advice of any sort. People can find advice intrusive and disrespectful.

Help me with: The Value of Knowledge and Truth.