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It’s dangerous for me outside…

I personally don’t think i’m that pretty, but every time i go outside, someone, a complete stranger would squeeze my but or whistle at me and try to take me somewhere,There like 30+ men, its child abuse! i’m only 14! i’ve tried changing the way i dress i don’t flaunt anything i have, and i walk as straight as i can, but it doesn’t seem to work. I’m scared tht someone might try to take me or summin, there arent a lot of rapes around my area but its not unheard of. It’s not right, right?

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It’s dangerous for me outside…

I personally don’t think i’m that pretty, but every time i go outside, someone, a complete stranger would squeeze my but or whistle at me and try to take me somewhere, its child abuse! i’m only 14! i’ve tried changing the way i dress i don’t flaunt anything i have, and i walk as straight as i can, but it doesn’t seem to work. I’m scared tht someone might try to take me or summin, there arent a lot of rapes around my area but its not unheard of. It’s not right, right?

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Anonymous #
7 months, 2 weeks ago (5 minutes after post)

….where abouts are you?
What do you look like?

LamaNick 15 #
An Unknown Location | 7 months, 2 weeks ago (7 minutes after post)

Move! Get your parents to move! WTF? That’s just WRONG! And scary!

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231me231 2 #
An Unknown Location | 7 months, 2 weeks ago (7 minutes after post)

i live in essex, england, i have medium black hair, i have hazel eyes, kinda pale skin. im not skinny but not fat, my doc says im a healthy weight

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An Unknown Location | 7 months, 2 weeks ago (11 minutes after post)

Do your parents or any adults have any idea of this? And what do you mean when you say that they try and take you somewhere. You shouldn’t feel like you cant even go out of the house. Have you tried being assertive with these men and telling them firmly to leave you alone? I think it is something that you should maybe even report to the police, because you have to remember that you might not be the only one receiving this kind of attention from these men in your area. You might be able to help other people avoid the same situation. good luck sweetheart x x

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Evie 1 #
An Unknown Location | 7 months, 2 weeks ago (1 day, 1 hour after post)

Annyia D.B Hardwick wrote:
i live in essex, england, i have medium black hair, i have hazel eyes, kinda pale skin. im not skinny but not fat, my doc says im a healthy weight

Firstly, what do you expect, your 14, your body is maturing, you live in essex!!! your not skinny or fat, so im guessing your inbetween quite curvy? nicely built? You have dark eyes…. You sound a pretty person, maybe you have massive boobs and a nice ***.. maybe you should flaunt it and they would be abit shy to do that?

Tbh, I get alot of wolf whistles, most girls do our age…What you gotta do is ignore it, or shout back…
i.e “you dirty pervert”
“eww, **** off”
“Id rather do ya mam”
and just stupid stuff like that.

Dont be afraid to go outside go out learn something see new places, its the way forward these days

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An Unknown Location | 7 months, 2 weeks ago (1 day, 3 hours after post)

if i was u, i woud tell ur parents seriously, that is not right! specially the trying to take you somewhere bit thats just wrong. try to avoid the places where you see them, and try to go out with a group of friends, then you the men might stop it and wont even go near you if you had a group of friends.

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An Unknown Location | 7 months, 2 weeks ago (1 day, 3 hours after post)

thnkz guyss! ill try all of ur ideas out!

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