Family help: i hate my ******* mum. - Help.com

what exactly do you need help with?

I hate mine as well and disowned her two years ago. Never looked back.

If you’ve only just met her for the first time then I guess… maybe you would have some resentful feelings. Ya know… Why did she leave in the first place? Why is she just coming into your life now?
You’re head’s gotta be full of these questions…

As for the bossing you around and everything…bit harsh! Surely she’d be wanting to get on your good side…she cant just come barging in expecting everything to be all fine and mighty and for you to just accept her that easily… she needs to slow down and back off a bit :/

hate is an extremely strong word, but if you truly dislike her,b ut you want to attempt to make things work sit her down and talk, it may be uncomfortable but it may also help quiet a bit.

amor.girl wrote:
well should i hate her? i mean i’ve only just met her but i hate her! we got talking about what i’ve done and every thing, but she didn’t care! then she had a right go at me for bein in a strop and sent me to my room. it was in my house and every thing but she cant just boss me about like she’s my mum!

i’m sorry but i’m a bit confused as to what is going on in this post???

oh right i remember the one where you were wondering about your mom she left quite a while ago right? so you found her? and she’s being all mother like when she gave up that right?

why? cause she’s awful or cause you resent her for leaving?

amor.girl wrote:
she’s comin in. and she said i’m not allowed on the computure to chat. i have to do work on it. she can **** off. and she’s havin a go at me again

Christ! Does she think she can just walse back into youre life life nothing has happened and cantrol you!? Tell her no. You don’t have to ‘just’ do work on it. Let her know that you dont like her bossing you arround. If she wanted to be able to tell you what to do she should never have walked out of your life in the first place.

Ignore her. Give her the cold shoulder. She seriously needs to change her attitude.

But the thing with the eggs? Think youreself lucky you even got to have half of one. My ‘not yet born’ brother got one. My mum can’t eat chocolate, her boyfriend hardly eats chocolate, im a bloomin chocoholic :P, but no, they gave it to the one year old they’ve only ever met twice. No choc for me at all. So yeah, youre lucky you even got half an egg :P
Life is well and truley mixed up for me at the minute…

she’s probably trying to make up for lost time with you,

amor.girl :-) wrote:
why would she shout at me though?

:/ maybe she wants you to see her as your mother rather than just the person who walked out of your life?

Anonymous wrote:

amor.girl :-) wrote:
why would she shout at me though?

:/ maybe she wants you to see her as your mother rather than just the person who walked out of your life?

she gave up her parental rights when she walked out in my opinion

~Nat~ wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

amor.girl :-) wrote:
why would she shout at me though?

:/ maybe she wants you to see her as your mother rather than just the person who walked out of your life?

she gave up her parental rights when she walked out in my opinion

I’ll agree there

plysk wrote:
mine wont stop pestering me about my grades, i get B’s n she just shouts, my elder sister is a one eyed perfect little A n she never soed anything wrong…….. i need help tooooo! she dosnt care about my feelings she just wnts to look good infront of my teachers. but it hurts. she doesnt care that my life is goin down hill big time now she just doesntttt
i need motherly advice, but she wont giv it to me
she hasnt said I love you in over 2 weeks, (that she truly meant)
i hate her! n she hates me

I know how you feel about the grades thing. I’m supposed to be getting A’s but in two subjects I’m currently working at B’s. One of the subjects I hate and the other one I’ve missed loads of lessons of.