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I really thought he liked me, but now this is this other girl.

Back before we started flirting, he admitted he liked her- but then stated that he no longer liked her. However, she is more his type of girl. She’s prettier, she’s smarter, and she gets his odd references. (Like back to Old british TV shows, and random sci-fi movies, and biology jokes) I only get them after he shows me the movie or whatever. They aren’t things I come across by myself.

So throughout the day he is 95% focused on me, and then this girl will come over… and suddenly I’m fighting for his attention.

It bugs the crap out of me. We’re good friends, and so that could account for all the attention I get… and then he could be interested in her- and that could be why he forgets about me.

Except, he used to tell me about girls- but now he’s stopped. Except, something made him not be interested in this girl before- but she seems to be hanging out more. Why do you think that is?

I have no right to be jealous, he isn’t my boyfriend- and even if he was, he is only being friends with her.

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littlenick offline Verified User (1 year, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 159 #
An Undisclosed Location | 7 months, 3 weeks ago (3 minutes after post)

Sometimes opposites attract. Try to become more interested in the things he’s interested and try to make him interested in the things you’re interested in. Who knows. Maybe later down the road you will become two kindred souls.

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Sir Urgdu offline Verified User (1 year, 10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 4 #
Evanston, IL, US | 7 months, 3 weeks ago (2 hours, 52 minutes after post)

If you’re not dating, then you have no reason to assume that you are the only one in his mind. Fight to impress him, you technically haven’t won him over yet.

Best of Luck

Sir Urgdu

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