talk help: How to improve communication with your boyfriend? - Help.com

klaser3 wrote:
You don’t.

What do you mean you don’t ?

Hello, Death! wrote:

klaser3 wrote:
You don’t.

That’s a little sad…
Anyways, go on some dates, talk, hang out more, ect.

We have been dating for 3 months now.
And hang out alot.
Its harder to talk to him these days, if there is nothing to talk about.

Hello, Death! wrote:
Hanging out a lot is good. Ask some questions, tell him you need help with something (homework/music/cars/whatever), or maybe you can go to a place you don’t go to often and see what happenes.

Alrighty thanks :)
Do you have any ideas on what type of questions I could ask him ?

klaser3 wrote:
Wasn’t trying to be too negative, just trying to speak the truth. Improving communication with a man takes much patience. Sometimes, it never works. That’s just how it is. What I did was, I sat him down everyday for at least ten minutes to have our ‘talk time.’ We talked about anything that was bothering us, anything we needed to improve on, and just how our days were going. This has become a regular thing and has opened us both up. It is much easier for him to talk to me now. At least, that’s what he told me.

I understand what you mean.
me and him are very open about our problems,
and how we feel.
We just have trouble sometimes with thinking of things to talk about.