friends help: I need to tell my friendds that it’s just not okay to keep arriving at my house unannounced, and stay until after 12.

ryanmurray8

I need to tell my friendds that it’s just not okay to keep arriving at my house unannounced, and stay until after 12.

I need my privacy, time to relax and some time alone with girlfriend. It seems that my house is the local hangout and it’s really geting to me. It’s me who has to wash all the dishes everytime they leave, wipe the counters, vacuum, etc. I just don’t know how to do it it tactfully without offending any of them. Any suggestions???

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madalene 1 #
An Unknown Location | 7 months, 2 weeks ago (7 minutes after post)

maybe you should tell them that ,you just wannted a quite night in or that you didnt really feel like hanging out .

im sure if they are your firends they will understand , you could tell them that you need some you time .

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Fritwell, K2, GB | 7 months, 2 weeks ago (18 minutes after post)

Just let them know, just tell the truth, ask them do they ever wonder who cleans up after them? Tell them they are still perfectly welcome but could they please call you first to see if you are busy, if they still persist on coming round then just don’t answer the door

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darkscorpia 18 #
An Undisclosed Location | 7 months, 2 weeks ago (43 minutes after post)

You need to let them know, tell them guys i really want a quiet night in so could we do this another day? or ‘could we do it at someone else’s place?’

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jcd 1 #
An Unknown Location | 7 months, 2 weeks ago (55 minutes after post)

Buy a couple of mean dogs and tie them up on the front porch.

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darkscorpia 18 #
An Undisclosed Location | 7 months, 2 weeks ago (1 hour, 10 minutes after post)

jcd wrote:
Buy a couple of mean dogs and tie them up on the front porch.

haha i’d soo do that

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