Love help: I’m 17 years old and I’ve never had a boyfriend and now I like someone but I have no idea what he thinks about me! - Help.com



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I’m 17 years old and I’ve never had a boyfriend and now I like someone but I have no idea what he thinks about me!

He is 4 years older then I… funny, a bit childish, friendly and he’s often clumsy! Beside that he’s pretty hot, smart, stubborn and very strong since he didn’t seem to find it hard to carry me around… and that is a lot since we’re about the same height and I can’t say I’m very thin(not fat either)!
We are both practicing the same material art and he is my coacher once a week. Because of him I got interested in the sport again, I had lost all my interest in it until he started in my club and started cheering for me and complimenting my fighting abilities.
Of course we talk during practices, like everyone, but our main conversations happens when he gives me a ride home(since we live on the same street), which he does almost after every practice! He has even offered to pick me up from school every Monday if I’m still there around 4 p.m.! Our club has an active social life and we throw parties and such where I’m the youngest one who’s allowed to enter. During the last party he put a pressure on me to drink(he wanted to see me drunk) since I had never really drunken alcohol before. He even bought all the alcohol for me and refused to accept my money… but before all of that he told my to tell my parents about it… me drinking that is. Nothing really happened at the party except he saved me from drinking belly shots and when we went clubbing down town he bought for me a 0,5L of beer and he actually stood over me until I drank the final drop… x)
Well anyway, I have no idea of what he thinks about me, he is so friendly to everyone!… and popular, always bringing tons of friends to the parties and often partying!
I trust him and I could write so much more about him but I think I’ll spare you from that!
How can I find out what he thinks of me without asking him!? There is no way I could ask him straight about it since I have a problem expressing my feelings!
I’m sorry for how long this post was, thank you for reading it!

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*Erika offline Verified User (10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 37 #
An Undisclosed Location | 7 months, 3 weeks ago (4 minutes after post)

My best advice here is to take life by the horns and go for it! The worst that can happen is he doesn’t see you like that and you know better for next time. Nothing in life is permanent and what doesn’t kill us, makes us stronger. If you don’t want to just ask him, start flirting with him and let him know how you feel. You’ll never know what can happen until you try. Good Luck!

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An Unknown Location | 7 months, 3 weeks ago (1 hour, 25 minutes after post)

It seems to me that I often see what people think about me if I look them in the eye. Maybe try to look him in the eyes a bit longer than just a second and maybe you’ll notice something :)

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hrafnaklukka offline Verified User (7 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 7 months, 3 weeks ago (1 hour, 32 minutes after post)

Thank you both for your answers ^^
I doubt I’ll try to flirt with him since if it would fail the whole thing would become too embarrassing x)
And I’ll try to look into his like that the next time we’ll meet, maybe I’ll notice something!

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