I find it really hard to communicate with people it is driving me insane…

lisaryanjame

I find it really hard to communicate with people it is driving me insane…

I have had a very isolated life 27yrs of not a lot of communicating is a long time , now suddenly I have all these friends who understand im quiet but its so hard to sit there listening to them all chatting a way and i just cant speak, and if i see then on a 1to1 then is even more hard cause we’re just sitting there in silents…i sometimes have stuff to say but i just cant get the words out at all … i have also just met my partner who is amazing but its getting so hard for her as i dont communicate enough i cant even tell her how i feel ! I look her with a mind full of stuff to say but the words just dont come out , i really dont know what to do anymore its getting me down so much, now i look at her and just cry cause i cant get my words out ……..

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anonomussssss #
An Unknown Location | 7 months, 2 weeks ago (30 minutes after post)

Ive got the same problem… except i still dont really have any friends and it gets really frustrating when i have to go out to places due to family… so im no real help but if i were to give advice to you then it would be confident in yourself, and try to find common groundn with your friends something your passionate about and talk about that…

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anonymoushel #
An Unknown Location | 7 months, 2 weeks ago (34 minutes after post)

youll feel a lot better if you get it off your chest. trust me.
ive been holding in words I need to say for a year now,
but ive found holding it in only makes things worse.
anyways, it sounds like your getting opprotunities to say how you feel.
so just do! i know that its going to be scary, and maybe its going to hurt,
but not getting them out will just make you regret and hurt more and more and more..
until you end up like me. and that, you do not want…

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smallr 1 #
An Unknown Location | 7 months, 2 weeks ago (39 minutes after post)

You have 2 choices sit there and continue to feel like this or just tell yourself to hell with it i’m going to just start talking. do not be afraid i know it must be hard for you, but i was once like that i’m now 47 and i spent most of my life in silence until one day i desided to just join in. it has a lot to do with confidence.watch and obseve what people are talking about then if you know anything bout the subject just jump in. there will come a time in your life when you will start to talk and by that time you’ll be so old you will not be able to remember. so just say what do i have to lose. because right now you are losing out on life.

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lisaryanjame 0 #
An Unknown Location | 7 months, 2 weeks ago (14 hours, 40 minutes after post)

You are all soooo right I will give it a go with my friends and try to join in but the hardest thing is to say how I feel to my partner…she says so many nice things to me and makes me feel so special but i cant do the same back i cant even tell her that i love her…!!! I can do it in a txt message but like she says you can be any1 in a txt so it means nothing unless i can say it to her face, i just look at her but nothing comes out…Getting over the past is hard im just thinking im gonna get hurt again and again but its stopping me from living my life …

Help me with: i find it hard to tell the one im with how i feel about them ….

smallr 1 #
An Unknown Location | 7 months, 2 weeks ago (1 day, 1 hour after post)

Just do not look back, because when you do that you are carring extra baggage that will weigh you down. I’m sure you’ve heard the saying PRACTICE MAKES PERFECT. JUST DO IT. As the cable man would say”GET ER DONE” Good Luck!!

Help me with: I feel like i want to run away

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