life help: soo lately, (mor like my whole life rely) iv been feelin like im not rely good enuf for anythn. - Help.com

Risen Demon
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soo lately, (mor like my whole life rely) iv been feelin like im not rely good enuf for anythn.

not good enuf for my gf, or to achiev my dreams n b who i wana b.. then wenever i start thinking this, i jus go into some downward spiral motion and start feelin like ****. its like one moment i cuz b totaly fine n hav my set goals n b on the right track, n then sumthn hapens n it gets me down n i jus fall al the way down. anyone got any advice on wt to do?

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Snar offline Verified User (2 years, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 41 #
An Undisclosed Location | 7 months, 2 weeks ago (16 minutes after post)

What are your passions, interests, and these goals you speak of? How much do they mean to you?

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An Unknown Location | 7 months, 2 weeks ago (30 minutes after post)

I DOES FEEL SO TOO.
but i does say to myself “since i dont have a place here, i’ll make one” yeah it does work

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7 months, 2 weeks ago (33 minutes after post)

does it feel like you have nothing to live for? No purpose?

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Risen Demon offline Verified User (7 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 7 months, 2 weeks ago (1 hour, 39 minutes after post)

no.. i mean
i hav this one goal i wud like to accomplish before i die
but sometimes i jus feel like.. why bother
il never achieve it, blah blah..
all these negative thoughts start to pour into my head
its manily trigered by things that happen
like wen i fail at something
or someone reminds me of how much i rely suk
heh..

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An Undisclosed Location | 7 months, 2 weeks ago (1 hour, 43 minutes after post)

Risen Demon wrote:
no.. i mean
i hav this one goal i wud like to accomplish before i die
but sometimes i jus feel like.. why bother
il never achieve it, blah blah..
all these negative thoughts start to pour into my head
its manily trigered by things that happen
like wen i fail at something
or someone reminds me of how much i rely suk
heh..

Do you want to know what my goal is? To change the world. Will I? Everyone including myself, think not. Will I try? Yes, yes I will. Why? Because someone has too.

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An Unknown Location | 7 months, 2 weeks ago (2 hours, 5 minutes after post)

ooo, that was nice snar :]
rely toiching lol x] seriously.. no sarcasm
and yea.. i will definitly try also
but i jus wish thers sumthin i cud to to get myself to stop thinking about all the stuff i think about
like failing
and yea
it jus rely gets me down sometimes that im not exaclty geting wer i wana go, or better yet im simply not ther
n then wat gets me down even worse is the fact that im such a baby about all this lol O.o
and.. for metaphors sake: wen i fall off my horse, i dont hop on again.. and that makes me angry cuz i kno i shud and i am aware that im not doing so and its jus like, “WDF do it u moron!” but i dont.. O.o u kno?

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An Undisclosed Location | 7 months, 2 weeks ago (2 hours, 16 minutes after post)

Try your hardest my friend, and you will have no regrets. Theres no shame in failing to meet your goals, as long as you live your life without regrets and revell in your passions.

A lot of the times we fall off the horse and feel battered and hopeless and ask ourselves, why get on again? The answer is simple, life is too short to walk.

Anonymous #
7 months, 2 weeks ago (9 hours, 1 minute after post)

We are suppose to be down when we don’t keep up with our internal goals. This happens to so internally, we stir our emotions to create more motivation to go forward.

Life is like a rollercoaster, up, down, we don’t know what to expect at times. The important thing is not to let the downs get to us and control the ups so that we don’t over react.

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Risen Demon offline Verified User (7 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 7 months, 2 weeks ago (2 days, 1 hour after post)

mhm nicely put both of u x]
thx a lot ;D

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An Unknown Location | 7 months, 2 weeks ago (2 days, 9 hours after post)

Imagine if you will that everything you want comes your way. No struggles, no passion, it just comes to you. Change happens by mearly thinking about it. Those around you come to your bidding, act like you want them to, you orchestrate everything that goes on in your life by mear thought. How would you feel then? Wouldn’t you become totally bored? You might even become stressed out having to think for everyone else.

The great incentive in life is the never knowing what the next day will bring. We champion our own lives by rolling with the punches and keeping our goals in front of us. Whether is happens today, tomorrow, or years from now, it will happen if it betters mankind. The world can change and has surprisingly and always by a small group of people.

Don’t expect meaningfull changes to your life to come from other people as much as from deep down inside yourself. One small tweek in how you approach life can move mountains.

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Risen Demon offline Verified User (7 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 7 months, 2 weeks ago (2 days, 19 hours after post)

thx genesis, that was wel writen =p
n ur right lol.. it wud b rely boring :]

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An Unknown Location | 7 months, 2 weeks ago (2 days, 20 hours after post)

i think u have to find ur passion, something that keeps u going no matter what. for me, its my daugher. she is my reason for everything i do. also, i rreally like helping people and taking care of people, so i am taking up paramedics. right now im in class for my EMT, and sometimes i feel the same as u, when i wanna jus drop the class, but i just think about my daughter.

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An Unknown Location | 7 months, 2 weeks ago (3 days, 7 hours after post)

Your welcome Risen Demon, just remember, no one does like you. You are unique and therein lies how very special you are.

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