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hmmmmm…any background???

Just what it sounds like…she was trying to do things for you, but they probably weren’t the things that you wanted her to be doing, so you didn’t notice them. Apparently men and women are different like that. (assuming you’re a guy?) Basically, she was trying to make you happy and failed, and that sucked for both of you…
Sorry, I realize I don’t know anything about the circumstances but that’s my guess.

sounds like she left for your own good? i dont know exactly but thats what it sounds like to me.

It sounds like she’s leaving you because she feels unappreciated…

okay thx.. ye i think that may be the case that i often hav no idea wat she suposedly does for me. i dont rely recognize it, maybe im looking in the wrong direction? any ideas on how to b mor aware or even identify wat it is shes doing? o.O

btw, no idea wy it posted anyonymus.. but it is my post. =p

look at all the minor details, whether its fixing dinner for you or something anything. just think about it

Eh.. I don’t know…
I guess you can say thank you more often?
That might helps
xD

it means she believes you are taking her for granted.
what does she do in the relationship? does she work? clean? cook? does she do things that proper ladies wouldnt becase you like it?
would you switch places with her?

if you answered yes to any of those things then it sounds like she deserves an apology.

you also have to think about yourself. what thought processes lead you to fall into the behavior pattern that caused her to feel the way she does?

and you also have to think about what is best for you, which in my experience is often the root of the issue in situations like these. men lose sight of themselves. they do this because they are raised to think that is what they should do.
good luck.

thx fatso
that makes sense
i often do find myself losing sight
but wen i try to think of myself
i feel i get a bit too selfish lol
O.o i need to find some sort of balance..