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THE INTERNET edited this post 7 months, 3 weeks ago. Read the previous text »
I am pissed
for once it isnt over something that happened to me
twice now i have been there to see my best friend get broken up in relationships. she is a great person, why does this **** happen to her?
she gets pretty upset alot because of all of this **** that goes down around her.
her last ex was dumped for calling her a retard, she spent a long time thinking she would never find another person to love, when she found this dude we both thought she had someone decent, but like 3 weeks later, after using her as far as he could go with her in those 9 weeks, he breaks up with her without any decent explanation.
she is sure it is her fault that this happened, she said she is a tool for whatever men wanted and she will never have a real relationship.
I am there for her to listen and give my ideas, but i feel like i am being less and less effective in keeping her from doing something terrible.
I consider her my best and closest friend, like a sister even, she knows things about me no one else ever will and i don’t know if i personally can hold up with everything else if she decides to end it like she says a lot.
I always saw my self like atlas, i held up alot of stuff and i did it not for the recognition but for the people’s survival, i always was satisfied with making other happy, its why i love this site.
actually helping others is like an anti depressant to me, but failing to help is the greatest opposite.
I am terrified for both of our sakes of what will come out of this.
she went offline a few hours ago, telling me her computer cable is snapped and she needs to turn it off or she will lose battery power, but after hearing nothing about this, and hearing lots of talk of hating herself and requests for me to kill her, her sudden leaving scares me.
can someone help me help her help herself?
i dont know where else to turn but to those i have attempted to help, and although i will hate myself for asking for something from you all, we both need the help.
she does go to this site, but rarely nowadays, she will most likely instantly know who i am talking about her. if you see this, i am really sorry that i am out of words myself to help, but i cannot just stop trying to help because of that. i cannot lose you and you have too much life ahead of you to throw it away.
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THE INTERNET edited this post 7 months, 3 weeks ago. Read the previous text »
I am pissed and scared
for once it isnt over something that happened to me
twice now i have been there to see my best friend get broken up in relationships. she is a great person, why does this **** happen to her?
she gets pretty upset alot because of all of this **** that goes down around her.
her last ex was dumped for calling her a retard, she spent a long time thinking she would never find another person to love, when she found this dude we both thought she had someone decent, but like 3 weeks later, after using her as far as he could go with her in those 9 weeks, he breaks up with her without any decent explanation.
she is sure it is her fault that this happened, she said she is a tool for whatever men wanted and she will never have a real relationship.
I am there for her to listen and give my ideas, but i feel like i am being less and less effective in keeping her from doing something terrible.
I consider her my best and closest friend, like a sister even, she knows things about me no one else ever will and i don’t know if i personally can hold up with everything else if she decides to end it like she says a lot.
I always saw my self like atlas, i held up alot of stuff and i did it not for the recognition but for the people’s survival, i always was satisfied with making other happy, its why i love this site.
actually helping others is like an anti depressant to me, but failing to help is the greatest opposite.
I am terrified for both of our sakes of what will come out of this.
she went offline a few hours ago, telling me her computer cable is snapped and she needs to turn it off or she will lose battery power, but after hearing nothing about this, and hearing lots of talk of hating herself and requests for me to kill her, her sudden leaving scares me.
can someone help me help her help herself?
i dont know where else to turn but to those i have attempted to help, and although i will hate myself for asking for something from you all, we both need the help.
she does go to this site, but rarely nowadays, she will most likely instantly know who i am talking about her. if you see this, i am really sorry that i am out of words myself to help, but i cannot just stop trying to help because of that. i cannot lose you and you have too much life ahead of you to throw it away.
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