i’m really a bad person.

ixluvxboy

i’m really a bad person.

this guy i really love thinks i’m crazy, retarded (literally), and even stupid. it’s all because i get jealous really easily. i dont like being jealous at all but it’s a natural thing that’s happening these days. he’s been telling me that i’ve been acting crazy. i really think i’m a bad person. This all started because this girl (lets call her Gab) has been talking to him (lets call him Bob). that made me really jealous because Bob talks to her everyday. And Gab never leaves Bob alone. i’m feeling like a stalker now since i read the conversations they have and it really kills me. I have told Bob that i’m jealous and this is what he said, “Saori, you shouldnt be, you’re very important to me and always will”. i was happy, yet i couldnt trust in him. And today, we came to a point that i got too annoying, and i got really embarrassed. i really want him to know that i get jealous because that’s something natural for me. i really need help. someone, help me….. i really dont want him to hate me.

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unsoshable 2 #
An Unknown Location | 7 months, 3 weeks ago (3 minutes after post)

Jealousy is a potentially dangerous thing. And its one of those things that takes years to get over. To spead up that process, get help from a counselor. It will help.

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fgdgasa #
An Unknown Location | 7 months, 3 weeks ago (10 minutes after post)

have you read a 1000 splendid suns? the book?

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jesusloves666 0 #
An Unknown Location | 7 months, 3 weeks ago (14 minutes after post)

ok ummm, tell him how you feel?! Lets say you do infact have a reason to not trust him, thats something you might find out. Lets say he loves you back just as much as you do him, you’ll find that out! And if its too early to be pouring these feelings of insecurity, then you do really need to chill out.

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ixluvxboy 2 #
Hanapepe, HI, US | 7 months, 3 weeks ago (15 minutes after post)

Unsoshable: i’m sorry but i cant see a counselor. it’s because i’m seeing a therapist and i’m really bussy with school and such

Anonymous: it makes me a bad person because it’s a natural thing for me and i cant ignore it. it’s not even funny anymore. before we just used to laugh about it and now i’m asking Bob (not his real name) if he loves me more than Gab (not her real name). and now he thinks i’m crazy.

fgdgsa: no i havent.

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ixluvxboy 2 #
Hanapepe, HI, US | 7 months, 3 weeks ago (35 minutes after post)

jesusloves666: he knows, but now he thinks i’m like a creep. he doesnt say it but he i know he does. i’m going to get even more emotional in the future so i’m just typing this now since i really need help.

Anonymous: well, for you, you have told me you can ignore it. i can’t, there is no way. he says that he loves me as much as i love him but how am i suppose to know that if he doesnt show it? i show him that i love him a lot. but these days, i dont think he even wants to talk to me at all. Also, i think he’s going to be ignoring me soon.

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sum 2 #
An Unknown Location | 7 months, 3 weeks ago (49 minutes after post)

Good relationships are built on trust. If you dont trust him you dont love him enough and need to relax.

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jesusloves666 0 #
An Unknown Location | 7 months, 3 weeks ago (52 minutes after post)

well then heres my last 2 cents.

Tell him that your not perfect, you do get jealous, and see if you two can reach some sort of “compromise”? if thats the right word. If he still thinks your a creep and he cant accept the things you do, i hate to be the one to tell you this, but that makes him a douche. In the meantime, try to not get so upset over the little things, no matter how hard that is or seems.

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ixluvxboy 2 #
Hanapepe, HI, US | 7 months, 3 weeks ago (3 hours, 17 minutes after post)

sum: we arent in a relationship, it’s hard to say. it’s not because he has a girlfriend or anything.

jesusloves666: i told him that but he said, “Heather and Stephanie acts the same way as you do” they are both his ex’s. i really hate it when he compares me to those people…. he hates them.

Anonymous: i dont think i can. I live in Hawaii. he lives in Oklahoma….

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jesusloves666 0 #
An Unknown Location | 7 months, 3 weeks ago (3 hours, 21 minutes after post)

honestly, bringing the fact that you live in hawaii, and he oklahoma, i just wanna list more reasons why you two shouldn’t be dating, but if it feels right deep down, pursue pursue pursue.

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ixluvxboy 2 #
Hanapepe, HI, US | 7 months, 3 weeks ago (3 hours, 34 minutes after post)

jesusloves666: that’s why we arent. we never have but we love eachother :/… and i think that’s why i have trust issues on him.

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debbiedee200 #
An Unknown Location | 6 months, 2 weeks ago (1 month, 1 week after post)

Hi…jealousy is a natural thing, it’s worse in some than others.
This may mean that you really care about this guy and you do love him…however, it’s obvious that he does’nt feel the exact same, he just does’nt want to upset you…infact he’s making you worse by telling you your mad..your not mad, your just confused.
you are worth more than this, get yourself out with your mates,find a hobby and make an effort with your appearance…you will soon feel better…i hope this has helped.

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