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Whats the good way for a guy looking for a relationship with real substance to present himself?

Typically, a guy who doesnt wanna, or has trouble being himself when hes looking for love is viewed as a sad or pathetic romantic. Hey thats kinda true with me! or has been in the past. Im really not too hot when it comes to meeting a girl, once their in, its so much easier, but i have trouble sometimes. Any girls or guys have some helpful tips besides be yourself?

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unsoshable offline Verified User (1 year, 6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Unknown Location | 7 months, 3 weeks ago (2 minutes after post)

When you find out, let me know….

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An Unknown Location | 7 months, 3 weeks ago (13 minutes after post)

Honestly it really does come down to just be yourself, or be the better (yet still honesst) version of who you are. (Not that I mean change who you are, just be as genuine as possible. :D) That’s really all there is to it.

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An Undisclosed Location | 7 months, 3 weeks ago (14 minutes after post)

when beginning a relationship with a lady it helps to share her interests. Also I want to say ladies want honest, compassionate men that can make them laugh, and make them feel special. Looks are secondary to those things.

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An Unknown Location | 7 months, 3 weeks ago (14 minutes after post)

That is all I do

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An Unknown Location | 7 months, 3 weeks ago (18 minutes after post)

heidih_12 wrote:
Honestly it really does come down to just be yourself, or be the better (yet still honesst) version of who you are. (Not that I mean change who you are, just be as genuine as possible. :D) That’s really all there is to it.

blehh, thought i could hear it in different words, but you sound right. Ty

echogideo wrote:
when beginning a relationship with a lady it helps to share her interests. Also I want to say ladies want honest, compassionate men that can make them laugh, and make them feel special. Looks are secondary to those things.

good sound breaking the ice advice, i like it! thx

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An Undisclosed Location | 7 months, 3 weeks ago (50 minutes after post)

First impressions are crucial! So much of what we think of other people is based on the first time we ever meet them-it’s part of human nature. Greet people with confidence and a smile wether you’re feeling confident or not at the time. It’s one of the easiest ways to open doors (when it comes to people). Introduce yourself right away and don’t WAIT for opportunities. You only get one chance to make a first impression for each person you meet.

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An Undisclosed Location | 7 months, 2 weeks ago (3 days, 9 hours after post)

First, you want to meet a girl that is worthy of your interest. I recommend volunteer organizations as the best place to meet quality people. Find a cause that you would like to devote some time to promoting and join or start a group that shares your interest. The girls you meet there will be worth knowing and recognize you as being a man of substance. Choose your girl and get her attention by giving her broad smiles and lots of attention. You are certain to be a hot commodity.

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