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I like this boy alot, but he will be leaving and I want to get over him. I dont know how though because when I dont see him I feel empty. Before he leaves I want to tell him how I feel about him, but when he is gone, what will I do? How can I move on??

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Anonymous #
7 months, 1 week ago (50 minutes after post)

would telling him change the fact he is leaving?

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willofthedavi offline Verified User (7 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 7 months, 1 week ago (56 minutes after post)

well if he feels the same for your the situation may change but it all depends on your current relaitonship. if your already close then theres the possibility but if your just aquainted in some way nothing will come of it. maybe a phone number exchange but i dont believe in long distance relationships.

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An Unknown Location | 7 months, 1 week ago (1 hour after post)

I doubt it would, he has an arranged marriage, they dont know eachother though. and he is going back to his home country.

And yeah, we are friends and all.

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Anonymous #
7 months, 1 week ago (1 hour, 2 minutes after post)

Its a huge up hill climb if u truely believe he’s the one.
I wouldn’t go there myself. But if u really feel he is the only one in the world 4 u then tell him. At least u will know then.

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giggle399 offline Verified User (7 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 4 #
An Unknown Location | 7 months, 1 week ago (1 hour, 4 minutes after post)

yeah, I know what you mean. Its hard to know anything for sure though, till you do something, so thats why I want to tell him how I feel…

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Anonymous #
7 months, 1 week ago (1 hour, 32 minutes after post)

You might as well, you may loose him as a friend but I guess it is worth a shot if u can handle the consequenses

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lettythegrea offline Verified User (9 months, 4 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 7 months, 1 week ago (17 hours, 20 minutes after post)

as weird as it sounds, you will get over him
my best friend’s boyfriend moved to australia last year and she was absalutely crushed, they were IN LOVE with each other and she wasn’t the same for about 3 monthes, always depressed and low, but after that she realised that he was one guy, and there’s no such thng as soul mates, just some people who you’re more suited to than others, and she found someone else who she was suited to and moved on.

you can’t make him stay, so try and prepare yourself for when he leaves, start the process of deciding what you don’t like about him and what you won’t miss

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