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I am $400 in debt.

This came along suddenly. I feel like exploding. I’m drowning right now and I need help. I have been crying nonstop for thirty minutes, and yesterday I took the longest walk of my life. It made me feel better, until I looked at my bank statement again today. It keeps adding up and I can’t stop it because I don’t have time for a job.
I’ve never had a job before. I was planning on getting one two weeks from now, after final exams. I’m in college and I have $30 in my pocket to get food and things. I can sell my books back next week, but they aren’t worth much at all.

Sorry to bother everyone with this seemingly meaningless drivel.
I just want to tell everyone that I need help, but one roommate is driving back to her home right now for the weekend, and the other one will most likely come in in a few minutes and go to bed. She has her own problems. I don’t want to bother her with mine. I feel so helpless and alone right now. I’m thinking about committing suicide, but I’m too afraid of the pain, not to mention death itself.

I don’t know what I need help with; I just need help.

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vandalay offline Verified User (6 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 6 #
An Unknown Location | 6 months, 3 weeks ago (3 minutes after post)

I’m 1800 dollars in debt and a college student with no job as well. I am making minimum payments on my card til summer comes along.

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glamourboy offline Verified User (10 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 35 #
An Undisclosed Location | 6 months, 3 weeks ago (13 minutes after post)

Iam $13.00 in debt to the public libary, so where all going through a hard time, your not alone.

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6 months, 3 weeks ago (13 minutes after post)

my stepdad is $210000 in debt and i’ve no idea where he’s gonna get the money from…

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littlenick offline Verified User (1 year, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 159 #
An Undisclosed Location | 6 months, 3 weeks ago (40 minutes after post)

$400 is nothing! Just pay it!

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Sasha101 offline Verified User (1 year, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 6 months, 3 weeks ago (46 minutes after post)

Who do you owe it too ? $400 is is a drop in the ocean hon, wait until you have a mortgage and all the bills to pay, you can do this so fast. Make cut backs if you can, just pay off a bit at a time, most people will wait and work with you as long as you let them know what you are doing, if you cant pay back and work out $400 then you stand no chance later in life.
The secret is, don’t get into debt in the first place, save , save , save then you get what you want with no interest. Borrowing is a bad way to start your life, my advice is Don’t start it, your on a downhill slope.

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spiratec9 offline Verified User (1 year, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 8 #
Burnaby, BC, CA | 6 months, 3 weeks ago (1 hour, 8 minutes after post)

not worth exploding for $400.
If it was $40,000 then maybe explode.

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littlenick offline Verified User (1 year, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 159 #
An Undisclosed Location | 6 months, 3 weeks ago (1 hour, 10 minutes after post)

If you really are having a hard time with owing $400, wait until you go out into the real world. That’s peanuts!

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6 months, 3 weeks ago (11 hours, 18 minutes after post)

dont assume debt that you cant pay. how old are you? if you are eligible to work, you might want to find some work to do. for $400, you can easily pay it off within 1-2 months even if you work for minimum wage. dont panic. think clearly. talk to someone that might be able to help you. god listens and god bless.

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natasha-crawle offline Verified User (6 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 6 months, 3 weeks ago (13 hours, 20 minutes after post)

I can’t “just pay it” if I have no job for at least two more weeks.
And I didn’t even know that my account was overdrafting until I was already one hundred dollars gone. I thought I paid that off… but I hadn’t.
I really need to balance my checking more carefully.

Thank you for all the replies and thank you for trying to help.
I know that, to some of you, 400 is not a big number, but I have never owed anyone any amount of money. I’m not used to handling accounts. This is my first time at any of this, so I needed an emotional breath of fresh air before I could think clearly enough to work it out.

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vicente_el_payas offline Verified User (1 year, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 6 months, 3 weeks ago (1 day, 12 hours after post)

Take care of one thing at a time. Put your debt at the back of your mind until AFTER your final exams. If $30 is not enough for you to survive for 2 weeks, how about getting a small loan from your parents or older siblings or friends just to cover your food / accommodation / travel expenses for those 2 weeks?

And then AFTER the finals, you can get a job (or two or three or four) and work hard to repay those debts.

Just think this as a lesson in managing your finances. With this lesson, i am sure you will be managing your finances more efficiently in the future. And.. good luck in your exams! ;)

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natasha-crawle offline Verified User (6 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 6 months, 3 weeks ago (2 days, 4 hours after post)

Thank you!

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webjeff200 offline Verified User (1 year, 11 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
Chicago, IL, US | 6 months, 2 weeks ago (1 week, 2 days after post)

This is something from Earl Nightingales “The Strangest Secret” This is audio is true and simple fact in life that is true for all of us. “We become what we think about.”
http://self-improvement-ebooks.com/do…

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