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I am leaving…

for good.

I wanted to make one of these big cliche` “Bye Bye” posts, so I can tick it off my list if things to do before I die.
But really, I am leaving help. I just find that help has changed too much.
I don’t come on anymore. All the posts are the same now.
Help has lost is true meaning and has lost all its originals…

So, with a heavy heart, I hear-by declare that I am leaving help. I may come back every now and again, to check out what is happening, but I won’t be on like I used to.

Yours Sincerely,
- Mez.

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Nante offline Verified User (1 year, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 29 #
An Unknown Location | 6 months, 3 weeks ago (5 minutes after post)

Like I said before, I hate to see you leave help, seems like barely anyone is on here regurlaly like they used to be, but it has changed, I hope to see you back here one day, but for now, see you later Mez.

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sum offline Verified User (7 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 4 #
An Unknown Location | 6 months, 3 weeks ago (17 minutes after post)

Its changed? Well i havent been here long so of course i dont know whats that about. bye bye stranger lol

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Mez offline Verified User (1 year, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 6 months, 3 weeks ago (17 minutes after post)

Thanks Nante. It is sad that I will be leaving help, and users like you along with it.
I may not see you on help, but we have to keep in contact!

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Jayde* offline Verified User (1 year, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 16 #
An Unknown Location | 6 months, 3 weeks ago (6 hours, 48 minutes after post)

It sucks when people leave. But i don’t really blame you. Things have changed and are different now. Hope to talk to you again in the future. Good Luck in the real world and take care =)

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Beardyman~~~ offline Verified User (11 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 68 #
An Unknown Location | 6 months, 3 weeks ago (15 hours, 22 minutes after post)

whoa, sorry I’m late. But bye, Mez. You really have done a great thing here. You’ve sure helped me out a lot :) so I thank you for that. Take good care of yourself :)

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Commander Ikari offline Verified User (1 year, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 234 #
An Undisclosed Location | 6 months, 3 weeks ago (17 hours, 19 minutes after post)

I await your eventual return…

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Mez offline Verified User (1 year, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 6 months, 3 weeks ago (1 day, 1 hour after post)

Thanks everyone. I will miss all of you, but not help.

No offence Dani, but I never really liked you. And I decided to ‘wreak havoc’ cause that account has been open for ages and I wanted to delete it, but as you know, help doesn’t let you delete accounts. And if you bothered to look, I actually helped some people, and told people how it is on others. Everyone knows that the truth can sometimes hurt, like you will see later… And save the “You could have asked a moderator to close it for you” cause everyone knows that moderators do nothing for this site. Even thought I was not fond of her, at least Mas did stuff. Yeah, she stole people’s passwords and all, but at least she DID the things a mod should be doing! You do things that are not necessary all the time. Oh yeah, I founf you arrogant at times as well :)

Don’t make yourself feel better by telling yourself, “He is only one person who thinks this. I don’t care. Everyone else likes me.” Hate to tell you, but lots of people feel the same as me. They are all just too scared to tell you, or they want to kiss your back side as much as possible so that they have a chance to become a moderator.

This just backs my idea of how corrupt help has become…

LOVE YOU ALL!

Oh, and Dani, you have no right to close this accont down. I have done nothing wrong.

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Mez offline Verified User (1 year, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 6 months, 3 weeks ago (1 day, 1 hour after post)

PS - I want to thank you all. I know that at some stage during my time here at help, you have all helped me, and I have taken that aboard. I really will miss you all.

So, for the last time,
Peace out peeps! :)

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Grim_Hardcastle offline Verified User (11 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
An Unknown Location | 6 months, 3 weeks ago (1 day, 1 hour after post)

Best wishes Mez.

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Mez offline Verified User (1 year, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 6 months, 3 weeks ago (1 day, 7 hours after post)

PSS - There are such things as shoutboxes Dani. You don’t have to ruin my post.
Don’t blame me, you cam eup with that excuse, as stated here:
http://help.com/post/260487-i-have-ju…

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ĐaNi HaŦeS ŸoŪ offline Verified User (2 years, 4 months) Help.com Volunteer Moderator Long Term User Shouts: 143 #
An Unknown Location | 6 months, 3 weeks ago (1 day, 8 hours after post)

I’m sorry you never liked me, i have no idea who you even are here, yeah trolling the place to get banned is still un cool try asking a mod nicely maybe they’ll ban your account to delete it

and goodbye

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Commander Ikari offline Verified User (1 year, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 234 #
An Undisclosed Location | 6 months, 3 weeks ago (1 day, 13 hours after post)

yeah…

So, since insulting people seems a’okay in this post, and since is Mez is gone forever, anyone want to insult her now?

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Commander Ikari offline Verified User (1 year, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 234 #
An Undisclosed Location | 6 months, 3 weeks ago (1 day, 13 hours after post)

Shizuko….Sophie wrote:

¤¤ Đani ¤¤ wrote:
I’m sorry you never liked me, i have no idea who you even are here, yeah trolling the place to get banned is still un cool try asking a mod nicely maybe they’ll ban your account to delete it

and goodbye

wow sounds like this mod was happy to see you go… she will do anything to make sure you dont come back

lol, how does the tinfoil hat fit you Sophie?

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ĐaNi HaŦeS ŸoŪ offline Verified User (2 years, 4 months) Help.com Volunteer Moderator Long Term User Shouts: 143 #
An Unknown Location | 6 months, 3 weeks ago (1 day, 13 hours after post)

I never insulted her i’m just getting annoyed at people who think its ok to be an *** just to get banned so their account goes

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ĐaNi HaŦeS ŸoŪ offline Verified User (2 years, 4 months) Help.com Volunteer Moderator Long Term User Shouts: 143 #
An Unknown Location | 6 months, 3 weeks ago (1 day, 13 hours after post)

yep i sure do know this obviously i said it didn’t i sophie?
but i’m not going to do it :P so go right ahead

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ĐaNi HaŦeS ŸoŪ offline Verified User (2 years, 4 months) Help.com Volunteer Moderator Long Term User Shouts: 143 #
An Unknown Location | 6 months, 3 weeks ago (1 day, 13 hours after post)

yeah well anyway

seriousness Goodbye mez and i’m sorry if i was an “expletive” to you but what you did was Not cool
Have a fantastic life

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Mez offline Verified User (1 year, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 6 months, 3 weeks ago (2 days after post)

Meh, in my eyes, you suck…

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pink sparkle offline Verified User (1 year, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 6 months, 3 weeks ago (2 days, 2 hours after post)

Bye from Help but not from my life okay?

Keep in touch with me Mez… :)

I think I too will be leaving Help soon…

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Neutra offline Verified User (1 year, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 19 #
An Undisclosed Location | 6 months, 2 weeks ago (4 days, 20 hours after post)

Hello once again, Mez, it’s been awile since we last spoke. Yes taking a break is a good way to regenerate yourself both physically and in mind. I know it says that you are gone for good, but I do hope that it’s just temporarily and that we can speak again one day.

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S offline Verified User (1 year, 3 months) Help.com Volunteer Moderator Long Term User Shouts: 30 #
An Undisclosed Location | 5 months, 2 weeks ago (1 month, 1 week after post)

Mez wrote:
cause everyone knows that moderators do nothing for this site. Even thought I was not fond of her, at least Mas did stuff. Yeah, she stole people’s passwords and all, but at least she DID the things a mod should be doing! You do things that are not necessary all the time. Oh yeah, I founf you arrogant at times as well

Wow, I just saw this, and am amazed at how wrong this reply is.
Dani has been pretty much the ONLY moderator on the site for the past month or two, because of all the other mods seemed to have vanished, and my laptop was broken.
She did an amazing job, and hasn’t stopped.
You just don’t realize what goes on behind the scenes, all the approving/moderating/dealing with and marking off reports, and sometimes I have thought about it, “we get no appreciation” but hey, I knew that the whole time I wanted to be a mod, that you don’t get appreciation, unless you go looking for it, and no, none of us do that, we just sit there behind the scenes marking of things.

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ĐaNi HaŦeS ŸoŪ offline Verified User (2 years, 4 months) Help.com Volunteer Moderator Long Term User Shouts: 143 #
An Unknown Location | 5 months, 2 weeks ago (1 month, 1 week after post)

amen to that!

and you act as of stealing passwords is not a big deal lol

that’s bad, real bad

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S offline Verified User (1 year, 3 months) Help.com Volunteer Moderator Long Term User Shouts: 30 #
An Undisclosed Location | 5 months, 2 weeks ago (1 month, 1 week after post)

ĐAnI wrote:
amen to that!

and you act as of stealing passwords is not a big deal lol

that’s bad, real bad

Oh, well, I wasn’t talking about the password bit, didn’t even realize it was in there! hehe, but yeah, stealing passwords is :|

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4 months, 3 weeks ago (1 month, 4 weeks after post)

Mez wrote:
Don’t make yourself feel better by telling yourself, “He is only one person who thinks this. I don’t care. Everyone else likes me.” Hate to tell you, but lots of people feel the same as me. They are all just too scared to tell you, or they want to kiss your back side as much as possible so that they have a chance to become a moderator.

I know this is an old post but I had to add, how many freaking times had Dani told most mods to **** off? and was constantly banned and stuff because she didn’t suck up to anyone at all and she said what she thought and believed in regardless. As far as i’m aware Dani became a mod because she is on here a lot and has good morals and what it takes to be a mod.

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An Unknown Location | 2 months, 3 weeks ago (4 months after post)

why

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2 months, 1 week ago (4 months, 2 weeks after post)

*Thumbs up* on that decision.

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