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I think one of my guy friends is using me.

All we talk about is this girl he is in love with, but he’s not with her. He always wants me to watch her and tell him what she does. They have dated on and off before and they are “talking” again. I was very upset the other day so I called him to have someone to talk to. She was having a problem too so he did not even care about me. He just wanted to find out if she was ok. He says that I am very special to him but I don’t believe it. I think i’m just a spy to him. What do you guys think?

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littlenick online Verified User (1 year, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 149 #
An Undisclosed Location | 7 months, 2 weeks ago (1 minute after post)

So you’re the caretaker for this girl and you’re allowing yourself to be used.

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7 months, 2 weeks ago (2 minutes after post)

I actually don’t “watch” her though or tell him anything about her.

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An Undisclosed Location | 7 months, 2 weeks ago (5 minutes after post)

Then next time he tells you to watch her tell him this, “Are you interested in her, or am I? You watch her!”

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An Unknown Location | 7 months, 2 weeks ago (5 minutes after post)

Ummm yeah that dude is crazy *** hell……I would drop his *** like a crack habit DONT be a push over darlin’

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7 months, 2 weeks ago (12 minutes after post)

littlenick wrote:
Then next time he tells you to watch her tell him this, “Are you interested in her, or am I? You watch her!”

I like it lol.

Armond wrote:
Ummm yeah that dude is crazy *** hell……I would drop his *** like a crack habit DONT be a push over darlin’

Yeah I already made him mad. When I called him upset and he didn’t care, I made it sound like she had a boyfriend.

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An Undisclosed Location | 7 months, 2 weeks ago (15 minutes after post)

Next time just tell him you got arrested the last time for being a peeping tom because you were watching her take a shower since he told you to watch her. And tell him, “by the way, she’s hot! And in the shower she’s hotter. That soap is such a ****! The video will be posted in Myspace page.” I think after that he won’t ask you to watch her again!

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An Unknown Location | 7 months, 2 weeks ago (27 minutes after post)

Anonymous wrote:

littlenick wrote:
Then next time he tells you to watch her tell him this, “Are you interested in her, or am I? You watch her!”

I like it lol.

Armond wrote:
Ummm yeah that dude is crazy *** hell……I would drop his *** like a crack habit DONT be a push over darlin’

Yeah I already made him mad. When I called him upset and he didn’t care, I made it sound like she had a boyfriend.

haha nice ;)

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7 months, 2 weeks ago (3 hours, 34 minutes after post)

littlenick wrote:
Next time just tell him you got arrested the last time for being a peeping tom because you were watching her take a shower since he told you to watch her. And tell him, “by the way, she’s hot! And in the shower she’s hotter. That soap is such a ****! The video will be posted in Myspace page.” I think after that he won’t ask you to watch her again!

Lol that would be hilarious!

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