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Think alot about this decision. Don’t take something like this lightly, really make sure you no longer like your girlfriend. Don’t do something you’ll later regret.

Either you decide your ex is still salvageable and you dump you current girlfriend. Or, you accede to the fact theat you ex is just that for a reason, in which case you remove her from your life and concentrate on your girlfirend. You seriously can not date your current girl while attempting to maintain a relationship with your ex when you are so clearly emotionally invested in her.

To be perfectly honest, i’ve only gone out with one girl ever…one time…..
But I’d either….

Tell your current GF what’s up, and be 100% truthful about it, do be sure NOT to do it in public, that’ll just f you over, do it in person so that you can explain fully without her hanging up or ignoring you. Give her time, she’s going to be angry and a little hurt, but if you tell her you just don’t love her, there’s a chance she’ll understand.

Or tell your ex that you need some time before you can get back together. Then do some form of the above.

What ever you do don’t be stupid and try and date them both for more than about a month, any longer one’ll get suspicious.

It’s hard situation, but even harder is the decision that you must make in your mind; Are you going to take the risk either way you are drown into.
You anyway need to make some kind of decision, what that means is up to your awareness to show you.

You should first think enough careful those persons who you are appraising and see where your heart and emotions are directing you to go. It’s not easy to do between two persons who you are seeing someway special but you must decide which one of the affections or relationships of yours is the most special and important one for you, and say that enough clear to the sides of the story, with honest but straight style.
But you don’t need to tell anything else than you need to, what you feel right to share.
Remember to be strong on your decision, otherwise it would turn out somehow difficult and this kind of situation needs no more problems to solve and endure.

You should see your true feelings, trust on your heart, take the jump, don’t mind the scary thoughts of the un-known but remember that start of something bigger than this is always somehow blurry and even screwy sometimes but don’t be afraid, don’t let your heart be let down because of the circumstances or how distracting the situations are but be strong on your feelings, you are the only one to say what your heart says is right and good for your life. Be calm, don’t worry, everything will settle down as they are ment, and if not, things can be anything but they will again come to this if you didn’t see the right answer to your questions on the first time.
Do as you see in your heart and mind most suitable for you, your mind can be tricky and easily fooled but see the lessons and lectures aside thise situations and you will do as You should. I wish you luck to see what is your choice and most suitable style to solve this situation out because remember, true love always wins!