My girlfriends just seriously burnt her back

mr_biscui

My girlfriends just seriously burnt her back

Her top caught fire yesterday and she ended up with quite bad burns all up her back, shes been to hospital and had it seen to but now shes just sat at home crying and I can’t go and see her cos her f*ckwit dads coming back from Pakistan which means I probably won’t be able to see her for a week or something and I just feel completely useless and don’t have a clue how I can help her. Shes definately going to have scars but I’ve found some products that can help but obviously thats no use untill the blistering goes down. I spent ages writing her a poem yesterday and that cheered her up loads but she accidentally deleted it and I also deleted my sent messages so its gone!! AAAARRRRGGGHHHHH!!!!! Just getting so d*mn frustrated and surely there must be something I can do!!!!!! I just need to cheer her up and take her mind off things but how can I do that when I can’t even see her to give her a hug????

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lostinatoodarkpark 3 #
An Undisclosed Location | 7 months, 1 week ago (6 minutes after post)

thats very nice of you
i think you ve already done enough

ow maybe you could get something delivered to her house
like her fav food or something?

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An Unknown Location | 7 months, 1 week ago (9 minutes after post)

video call might be good. Over msn or something.

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mr_biscui 1 #
An Unknown Location | 7 months, 1 week ago (21 minutes after post)

Yeah we keep on phoning each other but its like a big deal that her dads coming back so her house is full of ppl and she has to keep going off and doing stuff. This is the annoying part cos their both wicked ideas its just if her dad wasn’t here I could do them but he is so I can’t!! She says its okay and I’m doing my best, it just feels to me I haven’t actually done anything but talk and right now it feels to me like actions needed, not just words. Argghh right I think this isn’t getting me anywhere so next problem if you don’t mind. How do I show her the scars don’t mean anything to me? Shes freaking out cos I’ve always told her shes 120% perfect and now she thinks she isn’t cos her back is all messed up but as long as shes breathing (and most probably after) shes always going to be my perfect angel.

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An Unknown Location | 7 months, 1 week ago (44 minutes after post)

Few people ever right snail mail letters anymore. Take a stab at it and write it out in your own handwriting not typed. It’s a personal touch and can be treasured literally for a lifetime.

mr_biscui 1 #
An Unknown Location | 7 months, 1 week ago (48 minutes after post)

You, my friend, are a genius!!!! We had a rough patch a while back and thats just what I did and that helped loads!!!! Thankyou all for your help, feel a bit better now

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An Unknown Location | 7 months, 1 week ago (2 days, 4 hours after post)

Glad to help. : )

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