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top 5 things wrong with my life

1)my mother was recently diagonosed with cancer and sometimes she tells me its my fault.

2)my BD is an abusive *** who i broke up with and wont leave me alone.

3)everybody in my family is completely unsupportive and thinks im sort of physco cuz i like tattoos and i have alot of them, and treats me like some kind of leper.

4)my car is a piece of crap.

5)i think i have a warrant out on me…?

pick one to help with or see if u can top it.

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Dr. Ralph offline Verified User (1 year, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 75 #
An Unknown Location | 7 months, 3 weeks ago (5 minutes after post)

Your mom says you caused her to get cancer??? I can’t top that…

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231me231 offline Verified User (1 year, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
An Unknown Location | 7 months, 3 weeks ago (7 minutes after post)

haha i think i can top some, not all but some:
top 5 things wrong with me:
1) i have lupus, my body is slowly killing itself and its rele painful
2) have insomnia and depression, they both make me feel even worse.
3) my mother didnt even care when she found out about my lupus, she actually told the doctor to tell me how to administer my own medicine so she would have to ‘waste her time’
4) dumb, simple easy one, so i wont get anywhere in life.
5) my sister continually hits me and calls me a w*ore, wen im only 14 and have never even kissed anyone.

as for your mum wid cancer, she probs just upset and will take it out on the frist person she sees, give her some space and she might stop.

theres nothing wrong with likeing tattoos, i personally hate needles (which kinda suck coz my meds are administered with needles lol) its your body you can do what you like.

cant help you much on the bf thing tho, or the car or the warrant soz

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Hi,howareyou? offline Verified User (1 year, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
An Unknown Location | 7 months, 3 weeks ago (8 minutes after post)

whats the warrant for?

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youwish! offline Verified User (7 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 7 months, 3 weeks ago (11 minutes after post)

Hi,howareyou? wrote:
whats the warrant for?

i missed a court date. i dunno how it is in other states but in illinois if u miss a court date its automatic warrant, and if u get picked up your goin to jail. its dumb

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youwish! offline Verified User (7 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 7 months, 3 weeks ago (14 minutes after post)

Annyia- imsorry so u have lupus and ur sister! thats realled messed up 4 her to say tht stuff to you. i know its sounds really generic but i mean it.

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Hi,howareyou? offline Verified User (1 year, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
An Unknown Location | 7 months, 3 weeks ago (14 minutes after post)

i would go get that sorted out first. i cant help you with anything else..

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Rocco. offline Verified User (1 year, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 19 #
An Unknown Location | 7 months, 3 weeks ago (16 minutes after post)

I’m personally and greatly offended to the point of breaking down to my knees and begging forgiveness when I yell at myself for little mistakes I make sometimes twice daily.
This has caused a withdrawal in myself and I have given myself different people that exist only in my head(?) Some of them are very cruel and strict on me, some of them are good friends that I can talk to if I have a problem and they will tell me about /their/ past experiences and how they solved these problems.
Some of them are very powerful and can control my memories. Whatever originally cause them to come to me was blocked out and inaccessible to me, as far as I know…

Not sure if that tops any of yours, but the moral of the story is don’t let what other people say get to you.

-It’s your moms fault, if anybodies, that she has cancer.
-Your ex has problems of his own. Ignore him. He will get bored eventually.
-You are your own person and it is up to you what you do with your body, not them.
-Your car is the smallest of your problems. Get it fixed, get a new one, or be happy you at least have a vehicle available to you.
-Call the deputy office and ask if there is a warrant for you. If there is, request a hearing and get it sorted out.

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231me231 offline Verified User (1 year, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
An Unknown Location | 7 months, 3 weeks ago (16 minutes after post)

Naa its k youwish! u should focus on ur mum getting betta! but im sorry i cant help much

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youwish! offline Verified User (7 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 7 months, 3 weeks ago (16 minutes after post)

well i have a new court date now, but they sent me something saying my bond was forfeited, and giving me a new court date, but i dont wanna check if i hav one cuz if i do, they taking my butt to jail.

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youwish! offline Verified User (7 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 7 months, 3 weeks ago (23 minutes after post)

the stuff with my mother i know is not my fault, but still it gets frusrating. sometimes she seems normal and other times she seamss so small and weak, and sometimes she cries at night.and it hurts to see her like that, and i would switch with her in a minute if i could, i wish it was me instead of her. i dunno y she blames me and not my sister though. i know shes scared and she says i stress her out and that made her sick. and i know honestly its not my fault but it just hurts to keep hearing it.

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Neutra offline Verified User (1 year, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 87 #
An Undisclosed Location | 7 months, 3 weeks ago (25 minutes after post)

Take note that things may not be perfect in your life but there are some people who have it alot worse then you. You should concentrate on what’s right instead of what’s wrong and be thankful of what you have, especially while you still have it. Someday things may become worse and you would regret not enjoying what you have now as someday you may not be able to enjoy it. There are some people who would do anything to have just alittle of what you have, just remember that.

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youwish! offline Verified User (7 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 7 months, 3 weeks ago (28 minutes after post)

Neutra wrote:
Take note that things may not be perfect in your life but there are some people who have it alot worse then you. You should concentrate on what’s right instead of what’s wrong and be thankful of what you have, especially while you still have it. Someday things may become worse and you would regret not enjoying what you have now as someday you may not be able to enjoy it. There are some people who would do anything to have just alittle of what you have, just remember that.

thats a good point. im just frustrated right now and i needed to whine a little bit.

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hairyhead offline Verified User (1 year, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 4 #
An Unknown Location | 7 months, 3 weeks ago (4 hours, 19 minutes after post)

1) my gf is suicidal im afraid of losing her every day
2) i live with my mum who avoids talking to anyone especially me
3) im a chronic insomniac, i havent slept more than 12 hours this month
4) im in so much debt i have to lower my food budget every week
5) my car needs so much work that i cant drive it or sell it
6) my mum has cancer and she wont talk about it

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hairyhead offline Verified User (1 year, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 4 #
An Unknown Location | 7 months, 3 weeks ago (4 hours, 20 minutes after post)

1) my gf is suicidal im afraid of losing her every day
2) i live with my mum who avoids talking to anyone especially me
3) im a chronic insomniac, i havent slept more than 12 hours this month
4) im in so much debt i have to lower my food budget every week
5) my car needs so much work that i cant drive it or sell it
6) my mum has cancer and she wont talk about it

its not your fault its not my fault.
life is ****

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smexy300 offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 6 months, 2 weeks ago (1 month after post)

mine not as bad but still messed up

1. i was in set one and i was move down to set 3 (theres only 4 sets)

2. i’m extremally depressed

3. i sleep for 2 hours each day

4. i really want to kill myself

5. i slit my wrists and tops of my legs

i’m only 14

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6 months, 2 weeks ago (1 month after post)

221me231 wrote:
i have lupus, my body is slowly killing itself and its rele painful
2) have insomnia and depression, they both make me feel even worse.
3) my mother didnt even care when she found out about my lupus, she actually told the doctor to tell me how to administer my own medicine so she would have to ‘waste her time’
4) dumb, simple easy one, so i wont get anywhere in life.
5) my sister continually hits me and calls me a w*ore, wen im only 14 and have never even kissed anyone.

she beats you by miles

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