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Uurrggghhh !

! Im a 13 year old and i really hate my life, its just awful. I always get into b**** fights and it just isnt me. Im popular but like i dont no if that me or im a fake, i hope that its the real me. But like i think im fat but all my friends say no no your practically anerexix, and its like im really not thats bad but sometimes i think maybe im becoming it, coz i always have voices in my head telling me to loose weight and sdont eat alot, all ive been eating the past week is rice crispies but thats all i like, i eat aloud of chocolate and like i dont no why coz i dont even like it alot, but my friends are always saying im a perfect blonde rich girl and you get everything and anyone i want but like i really dont !! I hide so much of my life its really like i have two lifes, my little shy life and my fake plastic life, but i dont have anyone for advice coz i dont really trust anyone coz i no so many people and hang with diff people all the time its hard to tell who they are and my twwo best frends i had i have had huge arguments with them and i havnt talked to them since and i just dont no what to do, i think im ugly and fat and all my so called mates think im crazy but i really think it, some people inn my class say im saying it for attention and im like im really not ive had plenty attention and its got me nowhere but bad places and i just need advice for what to do if anyone can help me, this is the first time i have ever done one of these and i dont no how they work but i will do anything to get my life sorted out (: x thanks

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littlenick online Verified User (1 year, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 159 #
An Undisclosed Location | 7 months, 2 weeks ago (5 minutes after post)

Are there other problems happening in your life beside the ones you describe?

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An Undisclosed Location | 7 months, 2 weeks ago (8 minutes after post)

When you don’t eat properly, you have big mood swings and get into arguments. Chocolate and sugar and rice krispies will make your life miserable.

Eat balanced meals. Some protein, some carb, fruits and veggies. Get some exercise. Those things alone will help you a lot. Your body needs proper nourishment or your brain won’t work properly.

Forget about being fat. Start some sports. Start running or swimming or biking.

Focus on making new friends. When people try to pick a fight, recognize that they have their own insecurities and just smile and shrug and refuse to get involved. It takes two to fight. Don’t waste your energy.

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An Unknown Location | 7 months, 2 weeks ago (11 minutes after post)

Hey there.

Thirteen? You are very young, so I would say anxieties are natural. Though thats not to take away from what you are feeling at all. I sympathise with you. I too had concerns around your age about how I looked and about my body being the right weight and such.. its not just girls you see.

Some people just dont eat alot. I eat loads. But i know people who genuinley just dont have the appetite. You should never eat for the sake of eating, just as you should never starve yourself.

Rice crispies, isnt exactly a nutricious diet. And I would suggest eating more fruit and veg. Eating foods liek this are proven to make you feel better and more alive, which might help you with some of the ways you feel.

AS for your friends. If you dont trust them, try and find trust in them. They probably love you and care for you. They dont want to see you get a condition such as anorexia. This could harm your life for good. But if you have concerns yourself about this condition seek medical advice. Or just talk to a counsellor.

Try not to express your feelings of anxiety about your weight or about your eating habbits to those who have no time for you. Especially people who are your age, as they too will rpobably have their own concerns about their bodies. Its only natural.

What else is concerning you? Is it just the weight?

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