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I actually know how you feel a lot… only my love i dont want to end.

Have you told him how you feel? If you talk things over with him it will help settle your internal conflict of emotions.

yeah i have… it was a while after homecoming because he was acting really friendly and flirty and gentlemanly and he even danced with me

he doesn’t like me back and he was really really surprised to hear that i like him :P but yeah i told him cus i thought it would help me get over him like you said, but it didn’t help at all :[

Its kind of hard to think of what to do since you do seem to be trying actually to stop. Tried finding anyone else to help you get over him?

If he’s having a hard time then try to help him, but you don’t want to be with anybody like that. It could end badly. If things start looking up for him and he turns out to be like he was before THEN I would think about dating him.

yeah theres another guy i used to like and he’s sweet and funny and friendlier, but i can’t bring myself to actually *like* him. and also the love for the other guy is still there even tho i’m trying to ignore it. none of my friends really get it, or if they do they *really* don’t want to talk about it….

ScarofLo18 wrote:
If he’s having a hard time then try to help him, but you don’t want to be with anybody like that. It could end badly. If things start looking up for him and he turns out to be like he was before THEN I would think about dating him.

yeah i have helped him, i’ve had a bunch of really deep emotional convos with him

I think it’s great that you’re trying to help him :) Keep trying and hopefully when he comes out of it he’ll see what a great person you are and he’ll change the way he thinks about you.

You know im in a very similar situation… well totally different but theres a girl i like love so much but she doesnt like me and i really want to do everything for her

ScarofLo18 wrote:
I think it’s great that you’re trying to help him :) Keep trying and hopefully when he comes out of it he’ll see what a great person you are and he’ll change the way he thinks about you.

I pray that happens to me =S

Do you tlk to him much? do u txt/myspace/facebook/IM any of that him?

Gaberz T wrote:
Do you tlk to him much? do u txt/myspace/facebook/IM any of that him?

i used to talk with him ALL the time when he was a rocker boy, now that he’s serious he doesn’t talk to me much.

but i used to have long texting conversations with him, i dont have a myspace, i sometimes facebook him, and IM him a bunch. not recently tho, he hates me..

He doesnt necisarily hate you, your just saying that. He might just not like you that way and so hes being a jerk.

sum wrote:
He doesnt necisarily hate you, your just saying that. He might just not like you that way and so hes being a jerk.

well he says he hates everyone, which includes me. obviously not that friend i think he has a crush on tho.

Some people who say they hate everyone are just frustrated with how they are treated or childish if they dont get thier way. People like to push others away sometimes when they just want something and dont have it.