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So very sorry about your loss…

So glad to see you back as you bring a lot to the site Nextstar!

My friend, we ALL have problems, and it not the problems, but how we respond to them that counts. Just remember, we must rise above our problems to find happiness. Be strong and count your blessings.

Take care,

Cotton

Glad you are back. I’m sorry for your loss.

Well, that is today…tomorrow, it will be different..or could take longer! Anytime, we meet tradegy, it takes time for the wounds to heal. You will be a stonger person because of it, and i know this, because i’ve been there my friend. It so shall pass!

Got to run…

Take care!

First, off “my whole society sees me as an alien”?? You dont KNOW how they perceive you, so dont make the mistake of assuming what they think of you, you’ll just end up alienating yourself.

YOU: Next, make a list! Of who you used to be, what you miss about yourself, and who you would like to become inspite of it all. It feels better to see it on paper. Just take some time to yourself for thinking. You’ll always be lost if you don’t know what you want.

BOYFRIEND: Bring it up with him, talk to him - be straight. Tell him why it isn’t working. Dont let him go on with the denial, it will only eventually cause you pain if he decides its not working out. Maybe he doesn’t want to burden you with a new problem so hes not bringing it up.

I send you my blessing and offer my support. Let me know if you want to talk. OK? Love ya!

Sorry for your loss nextstar, welcome back to the site, maybe you can find the camaraderie and help you need here, just putting it in type helps at times :-)

Hi dear,
I have not been here much lately because of my job. Hehe, I went here because today is my day…
Also my arm isn’t well and I need an operation for it, which is cumbersome because I am moving to that new place. But I have often been thinking of you, hoping that you are happy. And you are not???

I think that all will be OK for you, sooner or later. Maybe it is just much at the moment.
I think we’ll get you on a better mood.
Should you want to talk, call me or send an email and I will call you!
Hugs!
Molo

Nextstar, darling. I know how you feel. It seems a lot of people are feeling a little lost lately. You’re not alone. I think right now, we all need to be patient…

Take some time for yourself, put yourself first. It’s alright. You must listen to your own inner voice. Find some silence, feel the joy inside of yourself.
I know it’s still there. You can only find your answer when your mind is at peace.
Take care of yourself and all rest will fall into place.

If you ever need to talk more, you can shout me or send me a mail. My e-mail is open to you.

Take care, sweetie. xx

Marylou :)

It kinda sounds as if your boyfriend needs to take some more time to think about things. He may want to marry you deep down but is to nervous and thinking that maybe things won’t turn out so well in the future. You have to reasure him that things will be fine, as a couple you two can work together to sort out anything that comes toward you two.

For all the things bothering you, you know sometimes you just need to drop everything. There is but so much a single person can take in their lives of something wrong and you should take the time out to put everything on hold until you are ready to solve it. It’s wrong to go into battle unprepared and you should take time to rest yourself.

I’m sorry for your lost:( The pain changes, so hang in there:)
You…are one of the smartest people I’ve seen here! You know what you know which makes you a winner:)
It sounds like time for a vacation and God didn’t go anywhere:) He’ll be there when you get back and be there with you.
It’s a indepenent thing you’re looking for and the people around you may not share your confedance. After your break you’ll look at it differently and more clearly:)

Spring is here and something great is coming to life just for you:)

Sorry about your loss, Nextar.

Only you and your boyfriend know if your time together has been wasted, whether you have learned and grown together, or if you are just weathering a rough patch. Fear of commitment is sometimes a smokescreen for not being in love. Dreams and plans are wonderful, but don’t start building a life together unless the foundation is solid.

If God is/has been important to you, find what it is you lost. You can look far and wide, but it’s right there inside you.