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SO, I have a brother that is a complete idiot, but
what’s worse than that is that his friends are touble-making pot and cigarette smoking beer swigging idiots. Most are underage. I am not please, bc my brother is barely OVER the legal age. Yesterday, he was with 2 friends, at a friend’s place. (apartment)
The father wouldn’t let two of the boys in, my bro being one of course. My bro then asked to use the phone. The father let him in, with his own son being in there with him. Anyway, my bro use to live in the same building. His one friend waited outside. He was going to moon my bro as a joke when my bro was leaving. The only problem was that the other guy heard the door, but it was a GIRL exiting the building. (i don’t know the girl’s age, but less than 15, I am sure, bc I know most people in that place)
Anyway, since the girl didn’t know the other kid outside, but had seen my bro, when she went to report it to the landlord, she used my bro’s name, even though he was inside when it happened. How much trouble can my idiot bro get into for this? My mom says not to tell anybody bc she is embarrassed that he hangs out with such losers. ME TOO! I know a lot of people, so I can only imagine that they are people that KNOW he is my bro. FRIG. Sometimes I just want to yell at him.
I am an ADULT, in my own life, married with kids, but WHY WHY WHY does he have to be so embarrassing. He never washes either. His hair is so greasy that it can be used at mcD’s to cook the french fries in. (*BARFS*) I constantly have to tell him not to get into trouble. I have children that could hear of his behaviour, and the behaviour of the people around him.
today he was in my car and there was a song with swearing in it. He turned it up saying “I love this song”. I mentioned the swearing and he said I know. I said “I have children!” (they were in the car) he said “oh” and kept listening. I pushed the tape in the player and he looked upset WITH ME, IN MY CAR, WITH MY KIDS! I said “We don’t listen to things like that!”
what a moron!
Advice? I can’t just stop being near him. He pretty much has nobody else, not because of his problems, but bc of life circumstances. If I didn’t drive him, he’d be stuck in my town for 6 hrs after school with no food, which would mean that he’d hang out with those idiots even more!
Thoughts? Help? I am slowly…..ok, QUICKLY going crazy-er!
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