Sigh, I don’t know where to start this…
so this is about me and my internet boyfriend, Ben.
So we met when I started seventh grade, on a Nexon game called Audition (my friend Franky got me into it), he was the only person on that MMORPG that actually was nice to me ^ ^;;; so I told him my MSN so we could talk a bit more (uhhh we stayed up till four in the morning talking), so after a while EGAD I realized I had a crush on him (…I still hadn’t met him) but I had talked to him on the phone and knew who he was (don’t worry he doesn’t know where I live) and he said he did too.
A year passes -blahblahblah!!!!- and now we’re up to now hmm…Iand I know how much I love him (it’s love, I’m not going to lie…seriously don’t bug me about this right now), and I even went to where he lives to see him (with my friend Katsu) but he was out of town (talk about bad timing, I was so depressed D: but recently it seems like he’s been ignoring me…I know I have to give him space but he’s on MSN and he won’t talk to me? I just kinda want to talk things out to someone, see what their insight is, because here I am 15 and a half and I’m dating a (very attractive ^////^;;;) seventeen year old and sometimes I don’t know what to do…
And one other question: How to I break it to my parents that I have an African American internet bf when they’re racist? This oughta be fun…NOT
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Are you freaking serious? This is the stupidest post I have ever seen!
You don’t? >_> If they’re an ‘internet’ boyfriend, well, then, I wouldn’t worry about breaking it. If you consider them a ‘real’ boyfriend, well. Then you should treat them like one.
Also, Nexon fails. Maplestory be the deformed retarded child of a platformer and RPG. The downfalls of both and advantages of neither…
How far do they even live from you? If it’s a loong distance as well as being internet, I’d personally just dismiss the whole thing. >_>
…I should just take down this post, I wasn’t looking for negativity. I was looking for help.
I don’t care if your concerned or whatever, it’s just really stupid to see comments like this, jeeze.
Not trying to just be negative, but you have to just realize when a relationship isn’t feasible. I’ve had a really great friend for a few years now, she’s a couple years older than me, and lives in Illinois. We have a very strong relationship, but we obviously know it’ll never be anything more than that because we live so far away, as well as the age difference… If they live far away, like I said, mentioning him at all to your parents will probably just cause more trouble for you than not, since it’s likely you won’t be able to meet up with them or anything anyway.
Did you see the picture? That’s probably what the love of your internet life looks like!
yes I did see the picture, very attractive -brushes littlenick off- Did you read the part where we’ve talked with webcams, I’ve seen him and his sister
I seriously doubt that, littlenick, since I’ve seen that image a ridiculous number of times. You see him twice on the first page of google image results for ‘fat’. He’s too well-known as ‘the generic internet fat man’ to be a child predator.
For the record, not every stranger is a child molesting overweight 40-year-old. Besides, they wouldn’t enter a relationship for a year, AND pass up a chance to meet her. Surprisingly enough, not everyone in the world is out to get you…
:) I’m not here for negativity. Mm, if they’re racist, explain to them that, (Not trying to be racist, just saying so parents will understand) 3/4 of A.A People are violent. This guy ISN’T.
BTW, Try FiestaOnline.
Syries wrote:
:) I’m not here for negativity. Mm, if they’re racist, explain to them that, (Not trying to be racist, just saying so parents will understand) 3/4 of A.A People are violent. This guy ISN’T.
BTW, Try FiestaOnline.
I barely play MMORPG anymore, it’s actually a bit of a shame since I used to enjoy them (I think .Hack gave me too many expectations!) And thanks so much Syries it’s nice to see a “chipper” (appropriate word…?) response. I just want to give them a little more time, maybe another year, until I try and EXPLAIN to them who I’ve been dating under their noses for around a year now ^ ^;;;
dragonfun10 wrote:
Syries wrote:
:) I’m not here for negativity. Mm, if they’re racist, explain to them that, (Not trying to be racist, just saying so parents will understand) 3/4 of A.A People are violent. This guy ISN’T.
BTW, Try FiestaOnline.I barely play MMORPG anymore, it’s actually a bit of a shame since I used to enjoy them (I think .Hack gave me too many expectations!) And thanks so much Syries it’s nice to see a “chipper” (appropriate word…?) response. I just want to give them a little more time, maybe another year, until I try and EXPLAIN to them who I’ve been dating under their noses for around a year now ^ ^;;;
They’re going to be pissed o.o You’ll get yelled at anyways, but it’ll go away. They’ll eventually put up with it.
Littlenick - keep negative comments to yourself, people come on here for help not bullying.
Dragonfun, due to the ages difference and considering your respective ages, i think you should try and contact him and tell him how you feel but don’t overdo it. wait until you get his response if you think your parents may react adversely to him. As if he thinks it won’t work ( for what ever reason) then you don’t have to tell your parents.
How about you dont tell them and let them know him first. Once they know him then if they ever meet him it will just be SURPRISE hes black.
Sorry i dont have racist parents so i dont know
twerty wrote:
For the record, not every stranger is a child molesting overweight 40-year-old. Besides, they wouldn’t enter a relationship for a year, AND pass up a chance to meet her. Surprisingly enough, not everyone in the world is out to get you…
Oh dear god i so wish the girl i like online knew that =/ i love her so much but shes weirded out too much
-TACKLEGLOMP SUM- AWW W D:
You should ask her if you can talk to her on the phone, just bring it up delicately (say you want to talk about something that happened today to her over the phone, that way it’s easier) —hahah that’s what Ben did for me and instead we talked about Call of Duty and about all this other random crap ^ ^
And I like your idea of that, letting them know first, that was what I was planning to do when I went to DC but his orchestra had this thing to go to (bahahah he plays the cello ^ ^)
I’m ***** jealous of his cello skillz d;
If you like call of duty….try soldier front.
www.sfront.ijji.
Syries wrote:
I’M ***** JEALOUS OF HIS CELLO SKILLZ D;If you like call of duty….TRY Soldier Front.
www.Sfront.ijji.com
OH YOU SHOULD BE JEALOUS -shifty eyes- lol I just had to!!! hahaha :)
I’m working on getting Devil May Cry 3 and 4, then I’m getting MGS (I’m also cosplaying as a female version of Snake two years from now for Acen/Anime Central)
dragonfun10 wrote:
-TACKLEGLOMP SUM- AWW W D:You should ask her if you can talk to her on the phone, just bring it up delicately (say you want to talk about something that happened today to her over the phone, that way it’s easier) —hahah that’s what Ben did for me and instead we talked about Call of Duty and about all this other random crap ^ ^
And I like your idea of that, letting them know first, that was what I was planning to do when I went to DC but his orchestra had this thing to go to (bahahah he plays the cello ^ ^)
Tackle glomp? going to DC? You sound familiar now lol your not catholic also by chance are you? o_O
I cant talk to her right now because shes freaked out and ignoring me, i made a post for it even. >>>>> http://help.com/post/262291-okay-so-t…
o_o’ Why not EVA or Meryl? Female version of Snake sounds… awkward. :U
Hey Hun,
I am sorry you are getting so many negative replies to a perfectly good post.
Firstly, internet relationships CAN work.
Maybe not forever on the internet.. But until other arrangements are made where you can see each other, I think they’re fine.
A year is a long time, and internet relationships are very hard, a lot harder than real life, so, congratulations I guess!
Try to talk to this boy, phone, msn, etc.
And come straight up and ask him, relationships are about trust and being able to talk openly with each other, so talk openly and tell him exactly how you feel, like he is being ‘closed off’ and ignoring you, ask him whats up, he might just be going through something, in which case you need to be there for him to talk it through with.
As with your parents, well, you could just leave it, it’s not lying, but you could wait until things get more serious before you open up to them about it.
If you really want to tell them.. sit them down, start with, i know you won’t be very impressed with this and will have some things against it, but please, hear me out, and I will hear you out. Let me talk, and tell them the whole story. Then let them tell you what they think this could be very hard for you to hear.. BUt don’t interrupt them, wait til they’ve finished then say you love him, and you respect what they say but would really appreciate them understanding how you feel. Something along that line, anyways, good luck and let us know how it goes.
to be honest i wouldnt tell your parents anything at this stage as it could lead to a whole load of trouble for you they will go on about internet dating and not meaning to sound awful but if things dont work out what they dont know this time around wont hurt them.
to cut along story short when i was 14 11 years ago now! i did the same thing but realized i was quite young and internet dating no matter if you have seen them isnt the best of things to do i was seeing lads at school everyday and thought i would rather have a boyfriend i could see regular. dont you think that would be better? if you did stay together could you see any future? as when you have your first love you think that will be it but for 99% of people it doesnt.
he might not be talking to you prehaps not trying to hurt you but he might have gone off the idea of a long distance relationship all you can do is ask him whats going on. but i think your best staying mates even though you dont want to you will realize as months go on it would be a better idea. an did he know you were visiting??
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