every time i like someone a lot, and get close to dating them,

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every time i like someone a lot, and get close to dating

them, i end up finding something wrong with them, blowing it out of proportion, and running away, every single time. what’s wrong with me?

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karouri 0 #
An Unknown Location | 4 years, 1 month ago (5 minutes after post)

littlenick wrote:
You’re sabotaging your relationships because you’re afraid of happiness?

:\ i really don’t know, i had a terrible experience with a guy a year ago…but it was a year ago…i’m totally over him and everything, so i don’t think that could be it…i’m so confused

Help me with: i like this guy right now and we talk all the time.

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christy 0 #
An Unknown Location | 4 years, 1 month ago (57 minutes after post)

i think you’re too afraid to let someone get close. you should trust more and be more positive

unsoshabl 1 #
An Unknown Location | 4 years, 1 month ago (1 hour, 12 minutes after post)

karouri wrote:

littlenick wrote:
You’re sabotaging your relationships because you’re afraid of happiness?

:\ i really don’t know, i had a terrible experience with a guy a year ago…but it was a year ago…i’m totally over him and everything, so i don’t think that could be it…i’m so confused

Even though you may be over him, there is an underlying problem that he may have caused. I would suggest talking to a professional about this, as you are not only hurting yourself. Lets just say if you continue going on like you do, and someone falls in love with you, and you do this, you will destroy them. I know, I just went through this with the woman I feel is my soul mate…

I hope all works out… Best of luck

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An Unknown Location | 4 years, 1 month ago (3 hours, 43 minutes after post)

It is rare if u get what u want. Accept and move on. We are all strangers including parents, brothers and sisters. You have a choice to accept and get along or don’t.

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spsowle #
An Unknown Location | 4 years ago (2 weeks, 4 days after post)

i feel the exact same and it sucks! i thought i just haven’t met the right guy for me but now i have a great guy in front of me that i am totally compatible with and im considering ending things.. i think we must realize that everyone has flaws and you just have to make sure the good in him outweighs the bad. think about the reason you dont want to talk anymore. is it a very good reason? is it fair? these are some things that have helped me move on.

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