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We’re just friends

I met this girl at the beginning of first year college and I started to like her after a couple months. I let her know this, and she let me know she wasn’t interested but she wanted to remain friends. I let it happen, and we continued to talk on msn often and i occasionally went to her room. After about three more months, I was in her room and we kissed, I gathered she liked me from that. Was I mistaken?? We continued to chat on msn for a couple weeks, and I went to her room once again. When I was saying my goodbye I attempted for a kiss, but transitioned into a hug to seem less forceful, and she wasn’t giving me the right signals. She and I are not dating right now, and I don’t think she wants to. We make eachother smile when we’re around eachother, but it seems only to be the case when we’re alone, there’s this wierd tension when our different friends are around. I gather she just wants to be friends. Should I play the kiss off as a simple mistake and just keep her as a friend?

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Anonymous #
7 months ago (3 minutes after post)

Ask her whats going on maby she is confused herself.

Anonymous #
7 months ago (16 minutes after post)

I was talking to her lately and she told me we aren’t dating, she thought i was angry because of that. I just don’t know what to do.

littlenick 131 #
An Undisclosed Location | 7 months ago (26 minutes after post)

Play it off and go along. If she thinks you’re not dating, then move on to other people!

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Risen Demon 1 #
An Unknown Location | 7 months ago (46 minutes after post)

umm
im guessing she likes u
bout doesnt want to be with u atm?
why? idk.. maybe shes embarassed of u wen shes wit her frends
or maybe she dusnt want a bf atm and cant help how she feels for u

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Anonymous #
7 months ago (1 hour, 9 minutes after post)

that’s possible, thanks

Risen Demon 1 #
An Unknown Location | 7 months ago (7 hours, 15 minutes after post)

yup no probs, let me kno if i was right xD

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Anonymous #
7 months ago (2 days, 4 hours after post)

yea there’s something going on there.

downman1 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 6 months, 3 weeks ago (1 week, 1 day after post)

those three words are awful they burn. you aren’t dating because you waited a week to talk to her in person after you kissed. Ask her out to coffee like now. once you are in the friend zone you can never leave its like a life term of prison. Don’t let that happen.

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downman1 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 6 months, 3 weeks ago (1 week, 1 day after post)

you could also say ” lets start over ”

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Anonymous #
6 months, 3 weeks ago (1 week, 1 day after post)

well, i didn’t tell you guys everything…

After about a week, it was obvious that she was avoiding me, apparently the kiss made her realise she didn’t like me to that extent. **** happens, i don’t really want to talk to her right now.

I might ask her to start over downman1, but not anytime soon. Plus i don’t think i have to worry about being in the friend zone right now, i let her know that.

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