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girlfriend talk.

if u need advice wit ur gf, or u wana giv advice.. come here xD

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Gaurdian_Angel offline Verified User (1 year, 6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 7 months, 1 week ago (5 minutes after post)

Thank you.

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Risen Demon offline Verified User (8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 7 months, 1 week ago (9 minutes after post)

yup o problem dude
lol.. so wat is up wit u and that girl?
tlak to me lol xp

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Gaurdian_Angel offline Verified User (1 year, 6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 7 months, 1 week ago (28 minutes after post)

well we were togeather for about 3 weeks, and but we dated before that. And bfore her there was this other girl who really liked me, and couldnt stand me being with someone else.
So when she found out i was dating this girl, she lost it and told her me and her were togeather, so my GF started confronting me about this.
She kept asking me if i was cheating, and i denied it.
Then the other girl told her we were togeather for two weeks now, So my girlfriend broke it off with me.

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Gaurdian_Angel offline Verified User (1 year, 6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 7 months, 1 week ago (31 minutes after post)

but she still tells me she loves me, and i hate not being with her

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Risen Demon offline Verified User (8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 7 months, 1 week ago (32 minutes after post)

oic…
wel
but u wernt cheating right?
lol
no u wernt XD
soo.. how long ago did she break up wit u?
if it was like
today or yesterday
im guessing she jus got rely pissed and id it without thinking
therfore u shud relax, let her cool off and think for a bit
and in a day or so
talk to her about this agen
tell her u didnt do it
tel her she can trust u and u rely like her
and tel her that other girl jus made everythn up
UNLESS ofc u wana b wit that other girl still cuz maybe u still like her!? xD
wich idk why u wud, but there u go lol
is that any good advice? :/
if not >_> ..im sory maybe i cn think of something else tomorw :P

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Gaurdian_Angel offline Verified User (1 year, 6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 7 months, 1 week ago (34 minutes after post)

no this was good.
And she left me 5 days ago.

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Gaurdian_Angel offline Verified User (1 year, 6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 7 months, 1 week ago (36 minutes after post)

And i really dont want to be with the other girl, or anyone else for that matter

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Risen Demon offline Verified User (8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 7 months, 1 week ago (38 minutes after post)

o ok dude, wel then there u go
u jus gotta tlak to her, thats it =]
and tel her AGAIN wat she barelt lisend/didnt want to hear to last time lol
and if she doesnt believe u.. than maybe even ask her
“then do u mind if i move on?”
that way u can move on and not feel guilty if she ever decides to reconsider and maybe wants to take u back xD

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Risen Demon offline Verified User (8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 7 months, 1 week ago (47 minutes after post)

ok man, keep me posten on wut happens, im gona go to sleep c ya tomorrow i gues lol :]

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Gaurdian_Angel offline Verified User (1 year, 6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 7 months, 1 week ago (17 hours, 10 minutes after post)

ok, thanks for the advice.

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sum offline Verified User (8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Unknown Location | 7 months, 1 week ago (23 hours, 38 minutes after post)

I wish she was my girlfriend T_T

blah.. useless for me lol

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Risen Demon offline Verified User (8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 7 months, 1 week ago (23 hours, 50 minutes after post)

sum wrote:
I wish she was my girlfriend T_T

blah.. useless for me lol

lol yea sory.. this is jus i gues if u ever feel like talkin about her some more xD
i gues s u dont hav to make another post.. or w/e lol
or if u kno anyone who need help wit this, send them here XD

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sum offline Verified User (8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Unknown Location | 7 months, 1 week ago (1 day after post)

Blah….. i will just make more posts, cuz its crazy. I havent talked to her in months.

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Hellacious Haro offline Verified User (1 year, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
An Unknown Location | 7 months, 1 week ago (1 day, 6 hours after post)

lol…
Thanks for the invite.. but I’m a girl. xD

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sum offline Verified User (8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Unknown Location | 7 months, 1 week ago (1 day, 12 hours after post)

CC Haro wrote:
lol…
Thanks for the invite.. but I’m a girl. xD

lots of guys wish girls were lesbians just a little bit ;) lol… guys and girls arent that different anyways… well totally different but also same… sounds like im crazy lol i mean it doesnt make a difference your a girl =P

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Risen Demon offline Verified User (8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 7 months, 1 week ago (1 day, 13 hours after post)

CC Haro wrote:
lol…
Thanks for the invite.. but I’m a girl. xD

;O! *UBER GASP*
xD… wel that was a major surprise =p
sory bout that lol >.>

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Hellacious Haro offline Verified User (1 year, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
An Unknown Location | 7 months, 1 week ago (1 day, 16 hours after post)

*says in a totally manly voice* Do I really sound masculine?!
haha xD

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Gaurdian_Angel offline Verified User (1 year, 6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 7 months, 1 week ago (1 day, 16 hours after post)

lol

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velvettundr offline Verified User (1 year, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 7 months, 1 week ago (1 day, 17 hours after post)

first of all i wanna say thanks. Not allot of people would be not only willing but asking to hear everyones relationship problems and give advise. Thats definitely the most kind thing iv seen today :)

If you could help me out with this it would be much appreciated!
Well my girlfriend and i have been seeing eachother for about two months and we became official 3 weeks ago. I kind of wish i could say i love her but i don’t want to tell her yet because i think it’s too soon and it might scare her off. Well the main problem iv had is that im always the one to start the convos. Texting, talking or asking if she wants to do something and she does start it sometimes but it’s usually me. It just sometimes seems like she doesn’t like me that much but at the same time she does keep the convos going when we start so maybe she just likes being texted first or whatnot. It feels like our relationship is growing but this is my only concern. I’m not saying she should text me 24/7 but it does feel nice to know they are thinking about u

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Gaurdian_Angel offline Verified User (1 year, 6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 7 months, 1 week ago (1 day, 19 hours after post)

is she shy in anyway?

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Risen Demon offline Verified User (8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 7 months, 1 week ago (1 day, 21 hours after post)

hey velvet :P
ur welcom and thnks to u for joining this post ;D
and i understand perrectly wut ur concern is
my gf is also the same lol
she never rely starts a convo and shes not one to send me emails or anythng either lol
its mainly me always doing the first step and trying to contact herr
it didnt use to be this way, at the begning of our realtionship she wud start convos and stuff
but unfortunately.. i told her she was a bit clingy lol o.o and so… now she rely changed xD

anyways so this cud b the case iwt ur girl
maybe one day someone told her she was too annoying, or too clingy, or too obsessiv
who knows
and then now shes trying to act more “normal” or watever
or it cud b wat guardian is saying, she cud just be shy [my gf is also shy lol]
or it cud even b that maybe she has no common intersts with u
maybe she likes talkking about things u dont rely like

its gotta b one of those options lol, but ig ues it cud also b something else, ur job is to figure it out
hopefully i narrowed it down for u, now u jus gotta watch her behaviour and see wat the cause is
or u cud jus talk to her and ask her why shes like that.. maybe she isnt even AWARE she does it o.o

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velvettundr offline Verified User (1 year, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 7 months, 1 week ago (1 day, 21 hours after post)

maybe a little shy, when we first started seeing eachother my friend told me he asked her how she felt and she said she really likes me and she’s just so happy i like her for how awkward she can be. Those were her words and i’m thinking maybe the texting thing could be part of the awkwardness but i doubt it i mean if u like someone it shouldn’t be hard to say hello. These things just sometimes make me feel like i like her way more than she likes me which could be the case. I want to talk to her about it but i’d like to feel like she likes me more before i do cause im worried she might say something like this was a mistake or something. At the same time i have been over thinking this relationship way to much for my own good lol

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thsismygirlyusername offline Verified User (8 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
An Unknown Location | 7 months, 1 week ago (2 days, 18 hours after post)

im nobodys girlfriend….
whats wrong with me?????!!!

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Risen Demon offline Verified User (8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 7 months, 1 week ago (2 days, 18 hours after post)

anahivu wrote:
im nobodys girlfriend….
whats wrong with me?????!!!

i dont kno? xD prolly a lot of thins?!
lolol jk ;p
but rely idk.. maybe b more specific xD

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thsismygirlyusername offline Verified User (8 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
An Unknown Location | 7 months, 1 week ago (2 days, 18 hours after post)

Lol
i know
i was just trying you out xD

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Risen Demon offline Verified User (8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 7 months, 1 week ago (2 days, 19 hours after post)

anahivu wrote:
Lol
i know
i was just trying you out xD

lol yea thot so XD
did i pass the test?!? >;o

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Mrs. Hasta Pianoman offline Verified User (2 years, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 35 #
An Undisclosed Location | 7 months, 1 week ago (3 days, 20 hours after post)

well guardian, I would say that maybe you shouldn’t be with her if she doesn’t trust you, but at the same time I don’t think she did anything wrong…just a misunderstanding.
She was right in breaking it off from all the info she knew because she only had the info from the other girl, and she was wrong for not believing you…but these days you gotta watch out for yourself and that’s all she was doing.
SO I would try to talk to her about it and explain the situation, and if she doesn’t believe you at all she’s simply not worth it. You don’t want to have to beg for forgiveness for soemthing you didn’t do your whole life, do you?

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thsismygirlyusername offline Verified User (8 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
An Unknown Location | 7 months, 1 week ago (3 days, 20 hours after post)

Risen Demon wrote:

anahivu wrote:
Lol
i know
i was just trying you out xD

lol yea thot so XD
did i pass the test?!? >;o

well, you did it just fine :D

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Gaurdian_Angel offline Verified User (1 year, 6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 7 months, 1 week ago (3 days, 20 hours after post)

much appreciated.

She did it. shegave me another chance, thank you all for the advice.

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Risen Demon offline Verified User (8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 7 months ago (4 days, 15 hours after post)

[ :(=annie=): wrote:
]

Risen Demon wrote:
lol yea thot so XD
did i pass the test?!? >;o

well, you did it just fine :D

wooooooo lol x] yay im good

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Risen Demon offline Verified User (8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 7 months ago (4 days, 15 hours after post)

Gaurdian_Angel wrote:
much appreciated.

She did it. shegave me another chance, thank you all for the advice.

noooo probs ddude x]

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Mrs. Hasta Pianoman offline Verified User (2 years, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 35 #
An Undisclosed Location | 7 months ago (4 days, 15 hours after post)

Gaurdian_Angel wrote:
much appreciated.

She did it. shegave me another chance, thank you all for the advice.

yay :D

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