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I don’t know what to do.

I really like this girl, but I have no idea how to ask her out, or how to respond if she says yes. Can someone help me out?

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Proff. Vampress ;p offline Verified User (9 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 36 #
An Unknown Location | 6 months, 4 weeks ago (6 minutes after post)

well gt her on her own

get talking and start to get closer to her and when you are leavin ask her if she wants to meet up again and if she says yes then that is a good sign.

after the second meeting do the same but in a good moment ask her, if it doesnt occur wait till the next time

BUT DONT LEAVE IT TOOOOOOO LATE, OR THINGS WILL NOT GO WELL!!!

thts what i want to happen to me, and im an avrage girl

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littlenick offline Verified User (1 year, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 152 #
An Undisclosed Location | 6 months, 4 weeks ago (6 minutes after post)

Send her smoke signals!

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sum offline Verified User (7 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 4 #
An Unknown Location | 6 months, 4 weeks ago (7 minutes after post)

Relax, Dont be negative and expecting no. If she says yes, well your reaction will come out just fine so i dont need to tell you. No special trick to it really.

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Eddieee offline Verified User (7 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 132 #
An Unknown Location | 6 months, 4 weeks ago (17 minutes after post)

LOL

littlenick wrote:
Send her smoke signals!

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6 months, 4 weeks ago (20 minutes after post)

Asking girls out is easy, build up some confidence and walk up and ask her

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Hello users,Im Sandy offline Verified User (2 years, 11 months) Long Term User Shouts: 8 #
CA | 6 months, 4 weeks ago (20 minutes after post)

okay first off, you should see if she seems interested in you. that means giving it a couple weeks of flirting and seeing how she responds. give her a little extra attention. innitaite the conversation. touch her arm. body language and all of that. then when you and her are alone and the moment seems right ask her if she wants to go for a movie, grab a bite or hang out sometime. if she says yes then arrange a time with her later on and meet up or pick her up and go on that date. be charming, cute and sexy to her. put your arm around her waiste. and stay confident.

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Proff. Vampress ;p offline Verified User (9 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 36 #
An Unknown Location | 6 months, 4 weeks ago (22 minutes after post)

Hello users,Im Sandy wrote:
okay first off, you should see if she seems interested in you. that means giving it a couple weeks of flirting and seeing how she responds. give her a little extra attention. innitaite the conversation. touch her arm. body language and all of that. then when you and her are alone and the moment seems right ask her if she wants to go for a movie, grab a bite or hang out sometime. if she says yes then arrange a time with her later on and meet up or pick her up and go on that date. be charming, cute and sexy to her. put your arm around her waiste. and stay confident.

if only all guys could find the confidence to do that!!! hmmmmmm…not in my life!!

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Hello users,Im Sandy offline Verified User (2 years, 11 months) Long Term User Shouts: 8 #
CA | 6 months, 4 weeks ago (27 minutes after post)

aww hun alot of guys do have the confidence to do this. the shy, sweet ones are always the ones that stick around. plus girls should send off signals too for the guys they’re interested in. flirt, be seductive, act as if that guy is lucky to have a moment of you time. which doesnt necassarily mean be cocky but also being confident in who you are. touch thte guys arm. laugh at his jokes. but keep in subtle. let him come to you as well.

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sum offline Verified User (7 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 4 #
An Unknown Location | 6 months, 4 weeks ago (32 minutes after post)

Hello users,Im Sandy wrote:
…… touch her arm. ….. put your arm around her waiste……

I think you would have to be used to being a hands on kind of person like that or it might come off a bit awkward.

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Hello users,Im Sandy offline Verified User (2 years, 11 months) Long Term User Shouts: 8 #
CA | 6 months, 4 weeks ago (36 minutes after post)

well i dont think so. say they’re walking down the street or something he can just put his arm around her waist or while talking to her subtly bursh his arm against her’s. this is probably better advice for couples who have been dating for a couple weeks now or or at an older age-so they are more comfortable with these more intimate moves.

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