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I have no idea if he likes me.

I’m 17, and he’s 20. We both work at the same place and I used to have the biggest crush on him but forgot about it because i didnt think he’d notice me. And then one day, when he wasn’t working and I was, he came in and said hi and we talked for a while and then he asked me out and we gave each other our numbers. That friday we went out to eat (he paid) and spent like…7 and a half hours together just walking around and hanging out and watching tv and stuff. My mom and grandma and friends say they think he likes me, but I’m not sure. We make a lot of eye contact and he smiles at me a lot and hes very flirty, but I’m friends with him on facebook and it seems like he is like that with alot of other girls that he’s friends with. He also texts me when he’s bored at work and he came to visit me at work yesterday after he said he probably wouldn’t be able to. I can’t tell if I’m just a friend or if he likes me more. We’re supposed to go out tomorrow again.

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jessica0909 offline Verified User (7 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 7 months ago (10 minutes after post)

Well going out again is a good thing. Sometimes slow is best.

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Sir Urgdu offline Verified User (1 year, 10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 4 #
Evanston, IL, US | 7 months ago (14 minutes after post)

Maybe you should ask him for clarification. Although it does sound like you’re already dating, so one would assume that he likes you.

best of luck

Sir Urgdu

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ScarofLo18 offline Verified User (10 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 18 #
An Undisclosed Location | 7 months ago (16 minutes after post)

i think you’ll have to go out with him a few more times to determine that. He may really like you or he may be a player.

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snowsnoop1 offline Verified User (1 year, 11 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
Reno, NV, US | 7 months ago (5 hours, 52 minutes after post)

If he went out of his way for you, then he likes you. Us guys don’t go out of our ways for just anybody.

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