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Fat, unhappy, depressed, lonely, worried, school, Avoidance, work, Idiot (How Tags Affect Reciprocity)

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Bella. changed the tags on this post: they were "Fat, unhappy, depressed" 6 months, 4 weeks ago.

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Snar 40 #
An Undisclosed Location | 6 months, 4 weeks ago (1 minute after post)

If that pic is you, your not fat.

Help me with: I AM AFRAID TO FAIL.

Bella. 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 6 months, 4 weeks ago (2 minutes after post)

Thankyou, but I just feel bloated as hell at the moment and my thighs look awful in this skirt and it doesn’t help that I don’t have any friends that actually like me plus I am doing so ****, work-wise.

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Grim_Hardcastle 21 #
An Unknown Location | 6 months, 4 weeks ago (6 minutes after post)

Bella. wrote:
Thankyou, but I just feel bloated as hell at the moment and my thighs look awful in this skirt and it doesn’t help that I don’t have any friends that actually like me plus I am doing so ****, work-wise.

Hmm.. Why this negative attitude?

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Bella. 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 6 months, 4 weeks ago (9 minutes after post)

I have a negative attitude because I spend my whole school day listening to teachers telling me everything that I’m doing wrong. Then I come home and my parents take it upon themselves to do the same. Which pretty much kills off any trace of positivity that I may have once possessed. I am treated like an idiot because I look like a complete bimbo which I can’t stand. Sometimes I’m so tempted to go out and buy some hideous frumpy jumper, cut my hair into a bob and start wearing bad glasses. Then people might actually take me seriously instead of just trying to get in my pants.

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Snar 40 #
An Undisclosed Location | 6 months, 4 weeks ago (17 minutes after post)

Dont dress so provocatively? I mean, you dont have to go to that extreme but if your concerned that people are only paying attention to your looks then maybe dress a littel more conservatively and speak up in class and show your worth.

Help me with: I AM AFRAID TO FAIL.

Bella. 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 6 months, 4 weeks ago (19 minutes after post)

I don’t dress provocatively
I do speak up in class, too much. That’s why all my teachers can’t stand me.
I don’t blame them.

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Bella. edited this post 6 months, 4 weeks ago. Read the previous text »

I should go to school now.
But I keep putting it off.
I’m already 2 hours late.
I feel fat and unhappy. I am behind on all my work.
I am failing all my subjects.
I don’t want to go to school.

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Snar 40 #
An Undisclosed Location | 6 months, 4 weeks ago (27 minutes after post)

you said you look like a complete bimbo, is that your opinion or those who criticze you? Why dont you speak up in class?

Help me with: I AM AFRAID TO FAIL.

dsfjhs #
An Undisclosed Location | 6 months, 4 weeks ago (28 minutes after post)

Put more effort and time on your work. If your work is more significant, they will pay attention less to your look.

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Anonymous #
6 months, 4 weeks ago (37 minutes after post)

It might be time to transfer to a school that wears uniforms if you’re so worried about your appearance.

AtheistDad 9 #
An Unknown Location | 6 months, 4 weeks ago (54 minutes after post)

Dont worry, i dont think your hot atall :)

Help me with: I just bought some hair straightners for my better half.

Bella. 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 6 months, 4 weeks ago (2 hours, 55 minutes after post)

Well thanks for upping my already brilliant self esteem.
Note that I never said ANYONE thinks I’m hot, they just think I’m a tart who’ll be easy to get with.
Which really is the opposite to hot.

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k #
An Unknown Location | 6 months, 4 weeks ago (4 hours, 5 minutes after post)

i wouldn’t go that far to wear glasses etc. you will look plain enough if you just don’t do your makeup and hair a lot and wear jeans and tops at school. you will look natural and normal. next try to speak a little less in class, noone likes someone who talks ALL the time, cause it shows arrogance, and that you want to just hear the sound of your own voice. bye!!

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Snar 40 #
An Undisclosed Location | 6 months, 3 weeks ago (15 hours, 42 minutes after post)

Bella. wrote:
Well thanks for upping my already brilliant self esteem.
Note that I never said ANYONE thinks I’m hot, they just think I’m a tart who’ll be easy to get with.
Which really is the opposite to hot.

I certainly am NOT trying to insult you! Please dont get me wrong, but you used language that left your meaning vague and I was confused, it was something I needed to clarify before giving any advice.

People shouldn’t judge you on how you look in that regard, they should judge you on who you are and really I think you should dress however you feel comfortable dressing….its really up to you, and I dont know why people would think that of you which is why I asked the questiosn (as did others) that youve been interpreting as insults. I just want to know the source of the problem so I can fix it. If theres no good reason why people have those opinions of you then they are just idiots and dont bother with them if they cant see you for who your are instead of what comes to mind when they see you.

Help me with: I AM AFRAID TO FAIL.

Bella. 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 6 months, 3 weeks ago (19 hours, 56 minutes after post)

Yeah actually sorry about that, to be fair this whole post has got confusing because I edited it + got rid of the whole original post.
Then people commented based on the comments and it sort of lost its entire point. lol

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Bella. 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 6 months, 3 weeks ago (19 hours, 57 minutes after post)

Oh and that comment wasn’t aimed at you, it was to AtheistDad.
I really should stop acting on anger and on impulse so much. Sorry I didn’t even think to say in the comment.

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