So apparently the helpbot needs help…
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I want to help, but don’t have the time!
I am very behind on work and need to keep my grades. I should be working now. So I am going to take control and get off this site.
I hate to do so because I see that there are so many that need help. I would be on here all the time if I could, and one thing that makes me sad to sleep is knowing that there may be someone who really needs me while I snooze happily away.
So, I am off, and probably will be until I have finished the work I need to finish. SO PLEASE. If you have a problem (excluding problems with software or appliances or something else you could figure out by typing the appliance’s name in google) I would really want to hear from you. You can post here or email me at (email removed) . com.
I would just like to ask you to try and be correct with grammar and spelling. It makes things easier for everyone.
I look forward to helping as many as I can. Relationship problems? Family issues? Personal questions without answers? I’m your guy.
I am particularly willing to help those who need personal help. If you are doubting yourself, need a direction, or feel you can’t go on, I’m here.
We can only do what we can. We can’t always help everyone, actually our first priority should be towards ourselves anyway.
I am new to this site and wanted to know what you thought about it. I see that you have left lots of replies, do you think it helps people?
your a great guy nik
i wish u best of luck in ur work and life =]
Neutra wrote:
We can only do what we can. We can’t always help everyone, actually our first priority should be towards ourselves anyway.
Thank you for your concern, but this was not a cry for help. It was literally a cry to help others.
I do not feel guilty about anything or feel obligated to help others. I want to. It’s that simple. I am thinking about myself. I believe that everything I do willingly is for myself, for my benefit in some way. So, what better way to benefit myself then to benefit others as well?
I plan to help everyone, or as many as I can. You will see. I will one day be in a position of power from which to better humankind. This is a baby step on that path.
avott11 wrote:
I am new to this site and wanted to know what you thought about it. I see that you have left lots of replies, do you think it helps people?
I think this site is amazing. The internet has evolved to lead those who need help to it at the click of a button.
This site does wonders for others. Right now I am working off this site with a woman in Cairo helping her through her studies. These are real people, they have real problems, and I can think of nothing better to do than to sit and help them.
Welcome.
Risen Demon wrote:
your a great guy nik
i wish u best of luck in ur work and life =]
Thank you. The same to you as well.
=)
NikAngelo wrote:
I plan to help everyone, or as many as I can. You will see. I will one day be in a position of power from which to better humankind. This is a baby step on that path.
hey man, if u ever get in that position, let me kno lol xd
hit me up cuz maybe i wana b part of that :P
You know something, you kinda sound like me now. I remember when I said that awhile ago, I told someone that they could help themself by reaching out to others and you know it’s true. Sometimes the best way to help ourselves is to help someone else in need, as it builds up and comes back to us eventually. Course, we should help because it’s the right thing and not to only get something out of it. But yeah, sometimes you do have to take a break and the things you achieve along the way of assisting others will have a large impact on what you can do for the world later.
thANKS A LOT!! haha i am kind of new here but i have seen you are very smart and in essence very good analizing situations…. study and work hard…. it will help you to grow and succed
Believe me I know. I don’t, that’s the thing. So far i haven’t needed to, grades came easily, but I’ve just gotten too lazy.
since u asked for it, ok then.
how does one cure addiction?
ok, how do i try to seperate my day dreaming from colliding from my reality. i seem to dream than live life. i have a short attention span. everyone think i hav it put together but i don’t and i have soo much work and school that just seem to ppull me. i don’t know wat to do. all i want to do is drop it all and gaze at the sky and forget i have any responsiblity. Rephrase the Q how do i stay grounded in reality.
okei! wrote:
since u asked for it, ok then.
how does one cure addiction?
I am working with a woman over email about that right now. Are you addicted? Is it someone you know? Give me a little more info, let me know you’re still there so I can respond.
sinfulpixie wrote:
ok, how do i try to seperate my day dreaming from colliding from my reality. i seem to dream than live life. i have a short attention span. everyone think i hav it put together but i don’t and i have soo much work and school that just seem to ppull me. i don’t know wat to do. all i want to do is drop it all and gaze at the sky and forget i have any responsiblity. Rephrase the Q how do i stay grounded in reality.
You don’t have to. It’s healthy to have two separate worlds. The key is not to mix them too much. And remember that reality comes first.
You seem to be telling me that you are stressing out over many things, and you would rather daydream and drop reality all together. I struggled with that for years. The key really is to make sure your school and duties are in order. THEN you are free to daydream.
You cannot allow daydreaming to get in the way of real life, just as you cannot allow things like online games to take priority over real world events. As my dad used to say: “You actually spend hours of real time sitting and staring into a screen to make fake money to buy fake things?” The real world comes first. Your daydreams are there to add color to your life in ways reality can’t.
Try prioritizing. Try to find real things in life to enjoy very much. That isn’t to say you abandon your “me time,” only that you need some joy in the real world. Get through the real day in the real world, and then let your mind wander. You have to stay strong, and know that you have the will to succeed.
You are the pillar you need to lean on. Dropping everything to daydream is like destroying that pillar, destroying yourself. You can’t let that happen. Daydream is the way for the pillar to relax after a long day of productivity and strength.
Balance your life. Reality first, daydreaming after.
Try it. Spend a whole day in rapt attention, get home, finish all your priorities, and then spend an hour or 2 cooling down, listening to some music, far away from the cares of the world you already accomplished. All I know is that when I try and daydream with stuff to do, it doesn’t work so well.
See what happens.
Well that was well put and answered and as always to many people kinda in the back of my head. we all know good from bad, but once in a while we need to be hit to remember its there like duh.lol. I think ur advice goes about it the right way and starts very well.
But, i seem not to want to care for anything anymore. its like i’m sitting on a chair and watching my life pass me by and handed down to me. i know i should find motivation. i do. i’m the light at the party i’m the girl that makes everyone enjoy and smile. i’m the one that actually sit down by the water fall down town and listen to every single noise being made and see how no one ever pays attention to it. i enjoy the little things in life. but its more of an issue like all i do feels meaningless and dull. like i’m tired of everything and wish it would all go away while i fall into an eternal slumber. i know i am the “pilot” of my life but this pilot is high in the sky with a plane with no fuel in it.I just feel tired emotionally and physically. i would never get to the core of my issue because i hate letting people fully know all about me.
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sinfulpixie wrote:
ok, how do i try to seperate my day dreaming from colliding from my reality. i seem to dream than live life. i have a short attention span. everyone think i hav it put together but i don’t and i have soo much work and school that just seem to ppull me. i don’t know wat to do. all i want to do is drop it all and gaze at the sky and forget i have any responsiblity. Rephrase the Q how do i stay grounded in reality.
http://help.com/post/272394-in-the-en…
meaning? do weed.wat, omg i can’t believe i just wrote all of this. i hate putting my problems all out.
chaoticpixie wrote:
meaning? do weed.wat, omg i can’t believe i just wrote all of this. i hate putting my problems all out.
Don’t feel insecure. It’s good to get your problems solved right?
You sound like you have all the tools to succeed. Really. I feel meaningless and dull. I don’t feel there’s any meaning to the universe. I still find it. I create my own meaning. It seems youre already doing that.
Try succeeding in things right now. Get a job, and study for a better one. Go to sites like this and help people. In fact, help. On this site. RIGHT now. It really gave me meaning.
Your only problem is that, you have so much, and can do so much with it, but you ask yourself “what’s the point?” The point is to be happy. To make OTHERS happy. The point is to make a point. The meaning is to find meaning. You are not the usual person I help on here. I usually help those that don’t think they can help themselves. You can help yourself. You DO! So shut up, and get goin. Go do things that give you meaning.
You got this. No doubt at all. ;)
Well thank you, for the shove. really that is what i need on occasions a good kick in the derrier. i hav been angry and soo pist off at anything and nothing. i think ur right. heck u know, that is how advice is. u already know it but it takes some one to yank it from the back of ur head to actually remember i know better. thank u :)
An adviser in the simple things you are indeed
A wonderer in webs i am
To mingle in webs of many designs
May your day be as bright as mine is today for you were the wind
that cool summer breeze which blew the clouds from the suns face
when you are in need though u have heard this b4 i will be your friend indeed
do not be a stranger for i will impose upon you if you are ,in a good way
many thinks and many smiles may your days to come be as lovely as mine is today
Glad I helped you help yourself. And I enjoyed your illustration of your day. I’ve had a hectic weekend and that was a brief respite of peace. So I thank you.
Work to do, places to go, things to start. Things to follow up on, things to finish.
It’s OK thought. Summer’s almost here.
well its good u got it all in hand. what kind of work do u do. or should i say goodnight for u to get some rest?
I work at a high school.
;)
omg, what do you teach. count yourself fortunate you didn’t have the pain and agony to teach me. seriousl. i was just crazy. i got good grades on almost all my test barely showed up and never or barely did any homework. my teachers got frustrated with me on many occasions.
No no no. I’m a student. =)
And I am the same way. I don’t do my work and get A’s on every test. We are a special breed you and I.
Cursed with intelligence and incredible laziness. ;)
Birds of the same feather. i wish to be lazy my whole life with not a care in the world. but unfortunnately that is not life :(
Not good. I don’t like being lazy. Once I get where I need to go, I’ll take the time to relax. But laziness is not good. I’m changing it.
wish i could say the same,but i love change around me but i do not like to change myself.and i’m stuburn. but all else i’m hot in florida in agonizing heat and it is killing me. the day was so hot or its just me spending to much time outside.
The hotter it is, the lazier you get. ;)
Just make sure you get the grades and do the thing you need to do. Then you can be lazy all you want.
lol, u hav no idea its like ur in this inferno. love fl but not at this moment. i like the cool breeze. or i just want to move out so bad i c wrong all i look. i think ur pro says ur a model?and it seems i talk more of me than u do :(
I’ve actually done very little modeling. I have to present myself more. I don’t. I need to get my recent pictures out soon. So, right now I’m not really working on anything. Over the summer I’ll be doing both modeling and volunteer work, so it’s good.
Florida is nice, you kiddin’? Paradise. But I guess we all want to move away from where we know. I can’t wait to leave the Bay Area.
ok, i hav known only one guy model. u and this cynic sob. he’s a nice guy but he isn’t well he’s too realistic and a pain up the mud.but all else he’s cute and handsome.
i wasn’t refering to u, sorry i’ll go away i tend to stray from the subject in person and when type. which i do pretty well. as i had said thank u. and hav a good one
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okei!
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