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Can any one help me?

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My gf broke up with me before 8 months ago i dont know why still im thinking about her
i really want to get out from this but why i cant why im still loving her.
its really painfull more than anything in the world please if any one can take me out i really appriciate i need a very big help with that i don no what to do where to go what im doing where im going..
i thoght maybe if i start a new relationship it will go away and its not fair.
please help me to get aways from this

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7 months, 2 weeks ago (4 minutes after post)

i was in exactly the same situation. im afraid the only thing you can do is hope it heals with time or try to win her back. im sure if you give it time, you will be fine. if you were very close and together for a long time its going to take longer to heal.

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hrtpain offline Verified User (9 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Unknown Location | 7 months, 2 weeks ago (6 minutes after post)

Anonymous wrote:
i was in exactly the same situation. im afraid the only thing you can do is hope it heals with time or try to win her back. im sure if you give it time, you will be fine. if you were very close and together for a long time its going to take longer to heal.

well thats what i cant understand i have met her only three days and we have dated only once i dont know what she have done to me i cant forget her

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An Unknown Location | 7 months, 2 weeks ago (43 minutes after post)

Chances are you only idealized her in your mind as the perfect woman. It’s not real, because it is not reciprocated. Three days is not enough to know a person, unless u believe in love at first sight. In the case that you do believe in love at first sight then remember “love lost is love gained”. If it doesn’t make sense to you now, it will one day. It has more than one meaning, but that is for you to sort out.

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An Unknown Location | 7 months, 1 week ago (23 hours, 59 minutes after post)

The love lost love gained thing makes zero sense to me. It’s stories like this that make me shun relationships. How can so much pain ever be worth it? Better to avoid the whole mess altogether.

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