Love help: i cant let go of the past…. - Help.com

The only thing you can do is focus on what you have now and move in that direction, take control over your life.

You should seek the answer for your questions, what is that still somehow gets you.
You should seek the right choice no matter the consequences or what the situation is now.
You only know the emotions of your real affection and will, the spirit of your awareness and soul tells you the things you need to know if you try to listen enough steady.
Your heart is all you need to care about now, it is no use for living for the others if you are unhappy or not satisfied enough because in the end structures like that starts to crumble and will fall apart even more harder than they would in this point when you still really seem to ponder and see the sides and suitable choices.

You are the only one to live for your self, anything what you do is always about you,
selfishly living people are always stupid if they don’t take care of the others too but in the end, you are the only one to make your self happy and securing your own personal happiness.

Facts:

- The grass is always greener on the other side
- Past good times spark curiosity
- commitment is an active process: you commit, you get married, you work on it! If it’s too bad, then you have to do something different, if it’s not that bad, learn to work on it… (btw, I’m male, I’ve never been married, but that’s how I would do it.)

If you are with the other person, after getting to know the other person more, you may find out that he has many other flaws..

Respect your commitment, respect your marriage.. but remember too that you only leave once…