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I’m really confused.

I’m a 21 year old girl, who has an absolutely great boyfriend…. but everyday I’m just so helpless, sad, and i just feel alone. It’s hard to admit it myself, but I think I might be a lesbian… I’ve never been with another girl, i’ve always wanted to, I feel so trapped. what should i do???

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tygar offline Verified User (6 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 6 months, 3 weeks ago (56 minutes after post)

Have you talked to your boyfriend about it?

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Brett! offline Verified User (7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Unknown Location | 6 months, 3 weeks ago (1 hour, 7 minutes after post)

You sound like you really care for your boyfriend! So the best thing would be to sit down and tell him your feelings. Its not healthy for you or him that you dont talk about it! Just be honest- to yourself and him. all the best

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littleunicorn offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 6 months, 3 weeks ago (1 hour, 16 minutes after post)

look most girls have felling like that tell you boyfriend how you fill and see what he says if he really loves you then he will understand just be calm and tell him

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spayne2123 offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 6 months, 3 weeks ago (2 days, 14 hours after post)

you should just tell him how u feel so u won’t keep going on feeling alone or sad cause that is not healthy and i should know this becuz i have been a lesbian for 15 yrs and i have had good boyfriends but could never see myself with them so just make yourself happy

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